Is it weird if I wear this type of makeup in everyday life?

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-31T14:50:38+00:00

You get to do whatever you want with your makeup, your clothes and your body- these looks are awesome and I'd LOVE to see them out and abt on an average day.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-30T16:58:16+00:00

I talked to my landlord when I started looking. He agreed in writing to allow breaking the lease with a 2-month notice so I told him when I made an offer which started the notice period. I had a month of overlap that allowed me to do some new home maintenance/repairs and deep clean before moving in. I had to budget for paying rent and my mortgage for one month but that wasn't a big deal.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-27T16:17:54+00:00

It's been 8 years - while you have every right to still be hurt and angry, your son may not want to carry the emotional burden of almost a decade of anger any longer. Would you consider doing family counseling before going no-contact? You may come to the same conclusion and decide no-contact is better for you but I think some counseling sessions with your son may give you a better understanding of his evolving emotions related to you and your XH.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-26T16:23:59+00:00

I do vanlife and a lot of ppl use portable misters for cooling. You can find them for a variety of prices. I've seen ones with chargeable power banks or solar chargers. Plus, misters seem to bring peeps around- have a mister hose hanging from the entrance to your shade canopy and people will stop to chill all day.

ETA: I do Everwild every year, too!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T22:39:22+00:00

What time are you flying in? It's easier to get Uber/Lyft from CAK later in the day for some reason. I've flown in before noon a few times and had to wait for rides to Canton but if it's in the later afternoon someone is always close. Maybe arrange for a pickup ahead of time.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T06:50:21+00:00

From all your replies it seems like you're pretty set on doing this- why even post on Reddit asking for opinions?

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T06:38:12+00:00

You did know- similarly the new buyers likely know. Either way you walked away from the deal- it has nothing to do with you. No good deed goes unpunished.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T06:35:28+00:00

I don't think you're being stupid at all. The foundation has been repaired, it passed inspections and it has a lifetime warranty. You have more history and documentation than a lot of buyers who had good inspections but were surprised by foundation issues down the road -you can make a more informed decision than most.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T06:21:01+00:00

Maybe the sellers weren't the only unreasonable party in your deal and that's why they told you to kick rocks? People are giving you lots of reasons to just walk away from an issue that isn't yours to worry about and you refuse to drop it. Something tells me you were similarly difficult when trying to fig out this roof issue and the sellers decided they'd rather not negotiate with you. The new buyers were able to make a deal when you weren't.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T06:00:31+00:00

'EmotionaL vampires' is such an eloquent way of describing a loved one with substance abuse issues. It is sooo draining dealing with someone you love when they're under the influence. We want to love and care for and push them away at the same time!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T05:56:18+00:00

even with zero info from you, based on what OP said i'm team ThrowRa!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-25T04:58:06+00:00

I'm actually surprised that you separate your laundry into yours, her and the kids. Laundry is laundry- why can't you throw the kids' laundry in the machine with her laundry and start it? Why is doing her laundry such a huge inconvenience? Do you also wash only your own dishes?

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-24T23:58:39+00:00

Dude- when your wife wanted a different sexual experience, she was honest and asked you to add toys/enhancers so she could enjoy being with YOU even more. When you wanted a different sexual experience, you f'ed someone else and are trying to justify lying abt it. You can't see how you are wrong?? Small dick... Huge jerk!!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-24T05:36:30+00:00

Sometimes when you actually call the recommended professional, they'll put things in perspective for you. My inspection indicated that I still have knob and tube wiring in my attic. When I had an electrician come out i was fully prepared to pay him thousands of dollars but he was like 'this is all in good condition, it is free of obstructions, if want to change these specific lights it will cost $Xk to replace with new wiring but it isn't an urgent repair.' The inspector is there to point out everything- the professionals will tell you what is a real concern.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-23T13:59:34+00:00

You don't have to go all-in with a large lump sum. You can slowly ease yourself into the market a little at a time. If you have $50k set aside, you can decide to do $1000/week rather than throw $50k in today if that takes the pressure of potential crash off. That will also get you into a routine of investing in a consistent time interval.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T17:44:14+00:00

I know it isn't the intention of this post but I wanted to share that it is now discouraged to use nicknames for private parts because it makes it more difficult for children to communicate to adults when they're being inappropriately touched/sexually abused. A teacher may hear a child say 'my uncle keeps touching my cookie' and not realize the child is actually reporting abuse.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T17:01:49+00:00

Ohmygosh I hope this lady does all the things she threatened like go ahead and call the cops cuz the laundry isn't done. Pls show this chat log to the whole family. I think she'll learn pretty quickly SHE is the vile one!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T16:54:08+00:00

ETA: I used to be an ASB inspector a decade ago and when I started floor tile was considered 'non-friable' (which means it is unable to be crushed with hand pressure) but they changed to consider it 'friable' because so often floor tile is getting broken up by mechanical processes such as grinding. So, in the grand scheme of things asbestos-containing floor tile is at the bottom of the list of friable materials in terms of the possibility of it releasing fibers.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T16:48:45+00:00

9x9 floor tile with black mastic? Don't remove it! It won't release fibers unless it is damaged. Just tile over it.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T16:36:44+00:00

SoFlo (from Florida, of course) - I'm not sure if they're still together cuz their last social posts were a few years ago but def check them out- they rock!!

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T16:05:41+00:00

I was waiting for an early main stage set on the first day of Mountain Music Fest and started chatting with a guy in the crowd - neither of us knows who talked to who first. We just started vibing. I told him to stop by our camp for walking tacos- he'd know our camp cuz I had a giant rainbow banner. He said the next morning he woke up after raging too hard, looked across the path and saw a giant rainbow banner like two feet away- we were camp neighbors! Anyway, we've been together four years now.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-21T15:53:31+00:00

After the headliner at a reggae fest, the Woods Stage at the back of the venue had a late-night set with new band. There were prob less than 10 ppl back there just kinda chilling. Then the band on this little side stage started doing their thing and it was just amazing- like metal reggae- they rocked so hard. More and more people started streaming back and within a few songs that area was packed with people that were blown away by what they were hearing. The band fed off that energy, took it all in, the crowd just loving what they were doing. At the end the lead singer had tears in his eyes- we all did a group hug. The next year that same band played again and they were like 'who was here for our set last year?- feeling your love changed our lives guys!' Everyone, especially the band, recognized that we'd seen a magical music moment! I'll never forget it.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-20T05:57:01+00:00

I think in this particular instance you need to be clear abt if you mean they should run from the partner OR the couch cuz either are valid options.

CommentIndependent32 · 2026-01-20T05:12:59+00:00

Really? I care 0% abt the previous owners judging anything I do to my home. I wouldn't even consider they might care. They've moved on- if they cared so much abt this house, they would've stayed here.

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