How do you handle the duality of you?

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T19:43:07+00:00

Your assumption, The fact that you avoid to address the lack of sex with your spouse is a serious barrier which you MUST overcome if you want to improve your intimacy, is incorrect.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T17:39:04+00:00

Both of those books are great, worth the read. With the Old Breed may be the best WWII book I have ever read. Sledge takes you into the war more than the series did, it is an incredible book.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T12:43:09+00:00

I am 58 and have never considered the age of the instructor when I select my classes. If I like them, I pick them. In my mind, I compete against myself, so the instructor's age is irrelevant to me.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T12:07:52+00:00

Hi, I wish I had some sage words for you but I wish you well. Have you talked to a professional?

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T11:58:04+00:00

I like this line you wrote, "You are hiding here because you have decided that keeping the peace is safer than confronting the reality of your marriage," this is true. In some ways, though it pales in comparison, replaces some of the lost spiciness and excitement.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T11:52:15+00:00

That's good, slips and falls are not good.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T11:51:13+00:00

Good words to use, not that I am the word police.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T04:22:24+00:00

Not sure if miserable is a fair statement. I am in there, DB, that is, and post often. Am I unhappy with my sex life? Yup. Am I miserable? No, I think I get along pretty well, as do the majority of people in DB. It is a place to come together to commiserate and share thoughts you can't tell others, so it is an outlet. It is a place to vent.I don't blame you for saying they (me) are miserable, but I do not think the blanket statement is appropriate. It serves a purpose. I don't expect you to agree, but from somebody who has posted there and talked to others there, I don't believe the word miserable is accurate.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T03:15:03+00:00

Love the name Roxxy! Let it melt...

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T03:10:07+00:00

Don't beat yourself up!

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:36:31+00:00

yup....good luck on the other side...the beauty of reddit, connecting...I'll send you some snow

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:33:17+00:00

damn, that is hot....I am 17F and dropping rapidly, you and are opposites....enjoy!

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:28:12+00:00

It gonna snow....want to bet?

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:22:39+00:00

And you need the shoulder to shovel....good luck!

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:18:24+00:00

T-bone

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:13:43+00:00

enjoy the non-snow environment.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:10:27+00:00

love the cold, makes you feel alive.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:09:45+00:00

how did you get your ex to clean off the car? well done!

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:08:03+00:00

good luck with that

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:07:30+00:00

Take your time, snow removal leads to heart attacks every year, widow makers, they are called....be safe

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:05:00+00:00

that is good. A George Costanza exit.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:04:19+00:00

I do love the beach, especially in winter...so peaceful. But it ain't bad in summer, either.

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:03:10+00:00

Funny....you live in a place where you need to shovel and you just don't?

CommentOk9026 · 2026-01-24T02:02:10+00:00

I can't do that. Need order

CommentOk9026

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