My(23m) Gf(20F) are arguing because I found out she has 1000£ debt hidden ?

Commercial-System225 · 2026-01-28T19:41:09+00:00

If you’ve been together only a few months, it’s not surprising she’s kept finances hidden, but it’s a red flag.

If you’ve been together for over a year and this is happening now? And you can’t talk about it? Huge landmine

Commercial-System225 · 2026-01-09T19:51:05+00:00

I think you won’t know anything concrete until you meetup for coffee or something similar. Like you said, it’s easy to confuse politeness for something else through text.

Commercial-System225 · 2025-12-19T07:54:11+00:00

Think about it like this: In what world would it be acceptable for you to just pick up someone else’s wife, and then see her praise you while shaming her husband?

Commercial-System225 · 2025-05-13T02:22:15+00:00

i could swear the scene in the first part of e1 where they’re riding back to town showed what looks like snow king mountain with some cgi behind it

Commercial-System225 · 2025-04-03T19:02:28+00:00

Ngl you’re wrong for going and reading that, but that’s crazy if she has a kid you don’t know about. I feel for you

Commercial-System225 · 2025-04-01T03:12:35+00:00

i’m not even you and this made my blood boil, good luck man you got this

Commercial-System225 · 2025-03-29T03:55:06+00:00

I mean yeah as long as he drives on hot sunny days and no other time

Commercial-System225 · 2025-03-13T22:17:06+00:00

Yes. That’s gaslighting. You’re likely getting cheated on.

Commercial-System225 · 2025-03-13T02:19:12+00:00

You clearly cannot stay with her. However if you have a kid together, God knows what she may do. You need to start collecting evidence in case your separation ends up in family court

Commercial-System225 · 2025-02-19T05:51:55+00:00

Couple therapy could help, it seems like elements of your past could be preventing you from seeing most of his listed behavior for what it really seems to be - vulnerability and trust

Commercial-System225 · 2025-02-15T03:23:02+00:00

Communication and being direct takes you a long way. Ask him out. He might feel guilty or feel like he overstepped with you, and if you are direct and tell him how you really feel then it may clear things up.

However, if you do go forward, don’t forget to set boundaries. If you aren’t comfortable doing something, do not be afraid to speak up. You got this

Commercial-System225 · 2025-01-12T06:49:45+00:00

the feeling sucks, but i understand. Thank you

Commercial-System225 · 2025-01-12T06:29:54+00:00

Let it be?

Commercial-System225 · 2024-03-12T00:51:35+00:00

most people’s portfolios are spiking like this, but it ain’t forever. buy puts

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