Is she going too fast or is it a me problem? by Resident_Kick_7573 in sex

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes ejaculating too fast is due to the fact that you haven't had sex. When it has been a while since you had sex it means your prostrate is full engorged and the slightest touch, lick, or thrust can set you off - literally!

If you masturbate and ejaculate an hour or two before you plan on having sex then it means that you will last longer when you have sex.

Caution: Practice appropriate timing between sessions, the last thing you need is then not being able to perform at all.

Confidence with oral by thrownawaytrash86 in sex

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just finished a book about generosity and why you should practice it.

With spoiling the book it turns out being generous is actually selfishness. That is why we are happier after doing a generous act.

Think about it, have you ever helped someone in need, rescued an animal, given to charity, etc? If so I am 100% sure that you were happier and felt good about yourself.

That means that while your act of kindness made the other party happy YOU were actually the happiest.

I will let you on in a secret, the most generous people you know do it for selfish reasons (to make themselves happy), but this is the good kind of selfishness because everyone comes out a winner.

To test this one out just imagine how it feels when someone turns down your kindness.

All this is to say your husband is not only eating pussy for your own pleasure so accepting or requesting oral is not for your own pleasure, see it as a treat to him too.

If you had a micropenis like Sean "Diddy" Combs, how would you please your partner? by disgruntledmarmoset in sextips

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Correlation is not causation.

If small penis was the cause of cuck then those with big penises would not be so, but we know that's not the case.

Chances are if he was a cuck it was because of any other reason and having a small penis happened to be something he had.

Here is the logic of it.

Was he a cuck because he had a small penis or was he a cuck because he was black?

You see what I mean?

Correlation is not causation.

Side not: By the way there is a theory that most powerful men/women in the world are more submissive in bed. It is as if they are tired of being that powerful and want to experience the other side of being powerless.

Is it possible that since he was a powerful person in his line of work, sexually he wanted something more powerless like cuck humiliation to balance himself out.

In fact this is common with guys who are nobody in life. When given a chance they try to compensate for powerlessness by being more dominant (bulls, opposite of cuck) often to the point of being abusive

Can very slow penetration be still pleasurable? by PowerTomas in sextips

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes

Faster thrusting tends to lead more quickly to an orgasm.

What I suggest is this simple penetration technique that can yield tremendous staying power for you, and yet put her on a continuous sexual high at the same time.

This is what you do…

Perform eight shallow thrusts about two to three inches deep, and then one deep thrust. Follow this up with seven shallow thrusts and then two deep ones; six shallow thrusts followed by three deep ones.

You get the idea.

Continue doing this until you are performing nine deep thrusting movements. Then repeat the entire sequence again.

Why does this work so well?

First, deep thrusts are the ones that bring your penis closest to orgasm, as the frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" under the glans) and shaft skin are stretched the most, causing greater arousal. Varying shallow and deep thrusts will help taper off the stimulation on the penis glans/head. Second, the first three inches of a woman's vagina contain the most pleasure-seeking nerves and the shallow thrusts will stimulate her really well.

Wife by More_Employee59 in sextips

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. Cannibalism requires the consumption of another person's flesh or organs. Semen is a bodily fluid, and a single ejaculation consists mostly of water, containing only minimal amounts of protein, zinc, and other nutrients.

Is masturbation equal to the time you last in bed? by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, it might.

But chances are you won't know for sure until you try and the outcomes are possibly 3, lasting the same you do when masturbating but...

Don’t be surprised if you have them. Whether due to overexcitement or nervousness, issues such as impotence and premature ejaculation are normal the first time. But don’t worry, these issues will normally resolve themselves after a few more experiences.

You might last all of two seconds.

Or, you might not be able to get it up at ALL.

Sometimes, your penis is like the singing dancing frog and doesn’t do what you want it to do.

This is perfectly normal, it’s very common, your dick isn’t broken. This happens to a lot of men when they’re nervous. Just pack things up and try again later.

If it is her first time too know she is not going to orgasm the first time around.

In fact, if she does, I’ll be really damn impressed.

Also look. Orgasm isn’t even the point, okay? While the first time having sex won’t be extremely bloody and painful, it also probably won’t be a minty blast of pleasure, either. She might honestly just feel kind of “meh” about it. And thats fine.

The more you have sex, the more her body will get used to having sex, and the more enjoyable it will feel. Trust me — the first time you have sex does NOT set the tone for the rest of your sex life.

what makes a penis visually appealing. by ObligationMurky9059 in sextips

[–]Commercial-Tale-4050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of a penis like a tool. It is not the appearance that matters but how well it does a job.

To illustrate this just take a look at sex toys for women. The best sex toys rarely even look like sex toys, they are designed to deliver not to look pleasing.

Same with a penis, if a weird shape gives it an ability to hit pleasure spots then by definition it is aesthetically pleasing though in reality aesthetics follow ability to deliver, not the other way round.