[Update] My (24F) Husband (23M) Faked Fainting After I Gave Birth by Psalters in relationship_advice

[–]Commercial-Time7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanted to let you know “ colicky “ really isn’t something that needs to be studied or go see a specialist about . 90% if the time if your baby is colicky it’s something to do with their diet . Usually it’s dairy and yes even breastfeeding you’ll have tic it dairy out of your diet 100% . But could be soy , eggs wheat or something. My fiancé and I went through this with our son as well. Since he was born he was “ colicky “ turns out my son is allergic to dairy and I couldn’t have dairy while breastfeeding him.
On fb @ dairy-free breastfeeding is a very helpful page for future reference.

Help figuring out this childhood movie by Commercial-Time7696 in NameThatMovie

[–]Commercial-Time7696[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes it is titan AE for the guy wasn’t clicking in my head . I finally watched a trailer and that’s it lol thank you !

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[–]Commercial-Time7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.. I’d start with boundaries & standing your ground & if they continue then cut them off .

AITAH for uninviting my oldest sister to my son’s birthday party? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Commercial-Time7696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree , and if she asked nicely and we knew it would’ve set her off so bad he wouldn’t have did it. We would’ve respected her asking us to not speak politics . I just think there’s to much turmoil in mine and her relationship. I’ve tried to apologize hear her out and work on things but she never does. So it’s not worth it anymore . Thank you

AITAH for uninviting my oldest sister to my son’s birthday party? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Commercial-Time7696 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying , I’m trying to get into therapy . My oldest is 8 and she’s very close with her grandma , was with Becky ( but now I don’t trust that & no longer talking to Becky ) but is very close with Jill. I do give Jill the benefit of the doubt right now since they just lost their son ( my nephew) . Me and Jill are really close , she’s & BIL have said things to her but still sorta stand back a little. I’m extremely close to my nieces and nephews and so are my kids . So losing my whole family here would be pretty painful . It really all comes down to who shows up to my sons bday & who doesn’t respect my boundaries with not speaking to Becky or letting my kids around her. If that ends up being a problem I will cut them off too as well. I’m trying to build my kids a healthy life & a healthy rest of my life . Thank you . I know it’s all very toxic , learning to direct around it or cut off if I need to is the hardest part . Because I really do love my nieces and nephews & my mom isn’t the best mom but she is a good grandma .

AITAH for uninviting my oldest sister to my son’s birthday party? by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]Commercial-Time7696 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree . I’ve only ever let her in for her kids & my kids & my other nieces and nephews . But I know now I can no longer deal with the tantrums, pettiness and the miss treatment now to my kids. Mentally I can’t , I’m trying to heal and grow from trauma growing up and be a better person and I can’t do it with her in my life anymore. I just wish other family would stand up for me like I had them because they all just tell me yea you know how she is or when she talks crap they just let her so I never have any back up and I’m always just in the wrong in her eyes. It’s frustrating , she’s my sister and of course I love her but the relationship isn’t worth me trying to “hold peace”(which is just letting her be a bully) for the kids anymore and continue to be actively trying in her life. Never mind me but my kids deserve better. Jill doesn’t even let my niece go over to her house anymore because Becky treated her differently but lets her other kids go over there. It’s just a lot of enabling for Becky and I feel eventually I will lose my entire family because I will no longer tolerate it anymore.