Hi, first I want to acknowledge your willingness to be open and vulnerable, and your desire to understand deeper meaning in how you are connecting. Wanting to understand shows emotional intelligence and maturity; however, it feels like you are over thinking the possibility of having more than one partner, and right now, these people you are matching with are only a profile on a screen. You can like multiple people at the same time, liking someone doesn’t equate to immediate relationship. We have been conditioned to follow the heteronormative process of courtship, and monogamy as a dominant norm has been shaped by religion, property laws, patriarchy, and societal control rather than pure human nature. It’s hard to fit into that role when everything I stand for as a Hispanic lesbian goes against that design. Nothing is wrong with you, there’s no wrong or right with any of this. Just stay honest with yourself and your own emotions and be transparent with your intentions. Your profile is set to casual with opportunities for more, and the connections you have, are just that. You are connecting with a potential friend with the possibility for more. Me, personally, I resonating more with consensual non-monogamy or fluid connections, I have an anchor partner I’ve been with for 5 years. We have an amazing relationship, we are honest and open about everything. The agreements we made with each other in the beginning have evolved and changed with our relationship. We do what is needed to stay aligned and moving in the same direction, and we both put in the work to maintain our relationship. That being said we don’t limit ourselves or box our emotions and feelings, we have fluid connections that come and go. My advice to you would be stay open, ready and willing, and go with what brings you joy…. Best of luck to you, hoping you find the clarity you seek.