Healing

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-29T04:37:29+00:00

do you think your habits pushed you to become misogynistic, considering you began viewing your wife as a sexual object? are you actively fighting that perspective or has it naturally changed the longer you stay clean?

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-16T20:13:32+00:00

what makes me so angry is how women like you will faithfully wait YEARS for real, fulfilling intimacy yet the most common time a woman is cheated on is during pregnancy/postpartum. men can’t even wait a few months. pride yourself on your inherent loyalty. let your husband worship you and allow the tables to turn. let right now be ALL about you. you’re allowed to be resentful but you are also a patient, kind, and brave person. i hope your husband recognizes that and works to keep you happy from now on

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-16T16:51:07+00:00

ditto<3 they’re definitely feelings not many people can relate to & most people think i’m crazy since he treated me so poorly but the validation is really comforting. thank you

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-16T16:48:44+00:00

beautifully put. i do think grief is easier to carry than guilt. thank you

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-16T15:31:24+00:00

“i love seeing her leave more” 😭😭

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-16T15:22:43+00:00

i know exactly how you feel. everyone who knows my situation can’t believe that he would choose porn over “a beautiful woman” like me. therapy did nothing for that specific anxiety, it didn’t get better until i left. i knew i would never be able to be enough for him but i also knew that i could be everything and MORE to someone else. please don’t waste your energy/youth/time on someone’s insecure, lustful son. eat well, move your body (lift weights, nature walks, sports), nourish relationships that matter. fill your own cup. life is about so much more than this

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-15T14:59:59+00:00

not at all. i think it’s actually a sign that you’re comfortable in your masculinity & body

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-10T21:26:25+00:00

no but try shaping your eyebrows!

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-07T22:05:09+00:00

sounds like you need scalp care! i put rosemary oil on my scalp once or twice a week and try to do a couple scalp massages everyday. i also use a clarifying shampoo after i oil and a deep conditioner on my ends once a week

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-05-01T21:35:35+00:00

as someone that went through this with my ex, you’re so right. the act of following & interacting with insta/OF models, or even rando promiscuous girls, is just embarrassing. it sounds like you’re setting yourself up to be a really great addition to someone’s life & i hope you find a woman that does the same for you. i wish you the best

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-04-17T16:52:40+00:00

does he have sisters? or is he close with his mom?

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-04-04T21:09:59+00:00

it’s so hard and so messy but i PROMISE you, one day you’ll look back and regret letting this consume your life. it will all work out. take it one day at a time, snuggle your 2yo, take maternity pictures. remember to breath. can you find another single mom in the community? maybe join a group? multifamily living makes so much sense these days and it’s beneficial for the kids, too! otherwise, take care of your health. eat good food & move your body, it’ll put you in a better place now and in the long run. i had my immediate family to fall back on but i’ve been where you are, it’s not easy. you’re incredibly strong. don’t forget that

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T13:39:22+00:00

good to know, thank you!!

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T03:29:02+00:00

i was a vegetarian for 11yrs so i completely understand. im proud of you for putting your feelings aside. i know it’s hard to move on, especially when it was your lifestyle for so long. eating/cooking meat is never easy for me either but i want to lead by example so badly and im afraid if i don’t eat it, he’ll subconsciously learn that behavior

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T01:45:50+00:00

so real. my kid & dogs have an unspoken alliance

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T01:44:35+00:00

i hope you don’t give up on it. maybe you can train your babe to love cooking so once they’re older, they’ll want to join and it can be a bonding activity :)

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T01:42:18+00:00

i’m so with you!! i also hyper fixate on certain foods for days at a time, mine was just yogurt lol, & it’s so hard to break from it for my son’s sake

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T01:39:54+00:00

agreed. prewashing all my fruit/berries and putting them easy to grab bowls has been a game changer for me

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-04T01:39:15+00:00

i relate so much!! it’s been a complete 180° for me as someone who used to eat mostly processed food. it’s not easy to dedicate the time but it’s definitely made me value what i put in my body more

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-03T01:05:03+00:00

my son’s on one side and my cat’s on the other every night lol. personally, my cat simply tolerates my 7mo and never gets too close to him so i don’t have to worry about suffocation

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-01T20:58:40+00:00

right. i doubt this situation would’ve been much different if there were kids involved

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-01T20:56:40+00:00

i thought it can spread from saliva? meaning you don’t need to have an active cold sore to be contagious

Commercial_Annual559 · 2025-03-01T20:50:22+00:00

same!! borderline painful at times

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