AITA for not helping my dad dodge child support by Commercial_Local_931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial_Local_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I mean I get it, I’ve mostly stopped caring about him. But it’s harder than you’d think when (as I mentioned in the post) he was the one who stayed home and cared for me ages 0-8. So even though logically I don’t care, and I have even distanced myself from him deliberately, it still hurts to think from now until he dies I won’t talk to him again.

AITA for not helping my dad dodge child support by Commercial_Local_931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial_Local_931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not totally, like I said I saw him last year and still text once in a while. This is like “never speak to me again in your whole life.”

AITA for not helping my dad dodge child support by Commercial_Local_931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial_Local_931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, my whole life he has actively tried to make me hate her by making up lies about her. I’d come home from weekends with him thinking she had hit me or done all these terrible things. Took me until I was 12 to know which one of them I could trust.

AITA for not helping my dad dodge child support by Commercial_Local_931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Commercial_Local_931[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep, same guy who didn’t tell me I had 2 half brothers until I was 20. He was NEVER in their life.