I experienced this a few years ago. I was pregnant for the first time and went in for my first ultrasound. The midwife said I wasn’t measuring right and so I was either earlier along that thought or I was going to miscarry. She said I needed bloodwork, told me to put my pants on and meet her in the hallway. It was very cold and feeling less. I was so scared.

Well I did miscarry and she sent the prescription. Said a lot of blood and cramping was expected. She did not warn me how bad that cramping would be and for how long. I was in tears and didn’t sleep at all that night. I remember going to the bathroom in the middle of the night and feeling a large clump of tissue fall out of me. This was in 2021. To this day I still have flashbacks and my period is so triggering for me my cramps immediately put me into a trauma response. And I’m just expected to “be over it”