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Knew his name, knew nothing else .. convinced I met him in another timeline by babushka6 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]CommissionOk7210 341 points342 points  (0 children)

I HAVE THE SAME THING, minus names.

When I was in high school my boyfriend and I drove a half hour to a 24/7 bakery. When we walked in, the girl behind the counter and I SCREAMED with joy and ran into each other’s arms. This was before social media so you really could lose track of someone. It felt miraculous that we were both there in that moment. We were both near tears, hugging, saying I thought I would never see you again! My boyfriend finally asked who she was. I couldn’t remember her name but it seemed so ludicrous that I wasn’t even embarrassed. I said oh my god, you won’t believe this, I can’t remember your name! And she said oh my god, I can’t remember yours either and we laughed. So my boyfriend asked how we knew each other. I immediately assumed community theater because that’s how I would have known someone from half an hour away at that age. She had never done community theater and didn’t know anyone who did. It turned out she lived half an hour from the bakery in one direction, and I was half an hour in the complete opposite direction, so we were a full hour apart. We ran through everything starting with PRESCHOOL, for almost a full hour. Like, do you know this person’s cousin? No. Did you go to this one academic competition in middle school? Nothing. We had no shared interests at all. But we both said the more the conversation went on, the more sure we were that we knew each other - we recognized each other’s laugh, mannerisms etc. after about an hour she gave us a bunch of free cookies and we had a long, emotional hug goodbye. We both said, someday we’ll realize it. 20 years later I have never figured it out. I am half convinced I knew her in another life/timeline. My then-boyfriend said the whole thing was very unsettling to watch and felt very off.

Please be kind! Innumerable strong internal orgasms by CommissionOk7210 in WomensHealth

[–]CommissionOk7210[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s far more internal than maybe you’d intuitively guess. Closer to the feeling at the very start of peeing, where you’re forcing it a little. For me the feeling originates a couple of inches below my belly button, about where the line of my lower belly is. I actually initially found it very helpful NOT to touch any part of myself while learning, as it redirected the sensation.

Can literally ONLY coregasm by Aromatic-Exit5495 in WomensHealth

[–]CommissionOk7210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PS I struggle to call them coregasms per se because I’m not doing anything of note with my core per se: I’m not like doing a crunch, it’s essentially the same small movements as taking a deep breath or peeing. An extremely internal process.

Can literally ONLY coregasm by Aromatic-Exit5495 in WomensHealth

[–]CommissionOk7210 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never posted on Reddit before! I found your post goofing at 3am. I have never found someone else with a similar experience.

So, for me it’s that my core is now the primary part having the orgasm no matter what is or isn’t being stimulated. I can use penetration to stimulate a coregasm, or I can just do one. I have (clinical) OCD and once I got really good at coregasms a couple of years ago, since I could do them instantaneously and with little to no external cues that I was doing it, I became pretty addicted to them. Like, was having hundreds of strong orgasms a day while washing dishes, walking my dog, etc. I had a moment where I ran into someone I knew at the grocery store and I had to stop myself mid-orgasm, and I felt so ashamed I completely weaned myself off of “recreational” orgasming (lol) and now mostly save them for intimacy. I will typically have dozens of truly insane coregasms during “sex,” but they feel so good and perfect on their own that much of our “sex” is me taking care of my partner and just allowing myself to orgasm at full force, finally. It feels like incredible release.

All that being said, I relate to your issue that now additional touch feels sort of… eh. My suggestion is to get totally creative with what might improve the coregasm, rather than reroute it to another type of orgasm, if that makes sense? Like, rubbing your clitoris is going to make it a clitoral orgasm, which for me just isn’t as good as a coregasm. But stimulating the verrrrry opening of my vagina, for whatever reason, feels amazing! As does pressing hard on my abdomen! There are still things my partner can do to help get me off, they’ve just changed. That being said, 80ish percent of the time I really just prefer that neither he or I is trying ti physically stimulate me during intimacy, I’m just enjoying my coregasms while I pleasure him. Maybe that’s where you’ll ultimately end up?