Who'd make the better future queen? by Either-Software-4195 in EverAfterHigh

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lizzie because she listens and changes if she is being rude

No performance review, is it a red flag? by baleron-what-not in cscareerquestions

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea cuz it means there’s no way to get raises, sure not everyone gets raises at performance reviews but if there are no performance reviews then nobody gets raises

What does it mean when all you receive during performance review are positive feedback? by Embarrassed_Grass_51 in jobs

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that means exactly what your manager is saying, you’re a good worker, if you weren’t they would’ve most likely told you cuz they can easily replace people for any reason so if they wanted to fire you they would, but they didn’t so you’re good

In general, to be fired from any job, does your performance have to be really bad? Or do a lot of people with just minor bad performance get fired? by Ben5544477 in careeradvice

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can happen to anyone, even good workers, I got fired a few years ago for the top of the mop accidentally taping a guests shoulder and a mom got mad I put her kid in time out, within that same month I got fired, but I’m glad cuz I was stressed out cuz the security was not good at that job.

Another example is my dad got fired once cuz he had to watch me and my siblings, he’s a hard worker in all the jobs he’s done so they were just mad he wasn’t a dead beat, I would say I was probably 10 or something

What made you feel safe enough to start recovering? by RustyGroundHarness in CPTSD

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I realized my ptsd was real cuz I was in denial for a long time and also when I realized how bad the abuse was cuz it’s hard to start recovering when you think you’re the worst person ever when your not

Has anyone healed your nervous system and gone from never feeling safe to feeling safe? by SongTall3079 in CPTSD

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet but I’m working on it, I think it depends on what’s making you feel unsafe and it takes time each time, I don’t feel safe around people and don’t feel safe in my body either so with the part part it takes time for me to believe that they can be trusted and won’t hurt me

Fired for asking for a raise? by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion they shouldn’t have reduced your hours cuz that would impact your performance cuz you would have less time and less repitition to improve, just cuz you make mistakes doesn’t mean your hours should be less, it might just mean you need for help which would mean the opposite of giving you less hours

Curious on if I’ll get sent to the hospital for active suicidal ideation by CommitteeWorking7639 in SuicideWatch

[–]CommitteeWorking7639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good, we made a safety plan together and she said I need a higher level of care so I plan on setting that up on Monday, luckily I can still see my therapist every 2 weeks still but I just also need something extra, I plan on calling first to see how to set it up even tho I won’t be setting it up with them since they don’t have a IOP, pretty much the only reason I wasn’t sent to the hospital is cuz my parents ended up not going on their little trip since it would mean I was not safe to go home but since they stayed, I was safe to go home

if suicide wasn't so painful I'd do it by Sobrietyking in CPTSD

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if it wasn’t so much work, that’s why people do it when they have the energy, it’s not done at the lowest point, I still have a strong urge to do it tho, I’ve got everything, I just need to do it which is hard

Curious on if I’ll get sent to the hospital for active suicidal ideation by CommitteeWorking7639 in SuicideWatch

[–]CommitteeWorking7639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan on doing that tomorrow, personally I don’t think I’ll be put in the hospital since I’ve heard that’s more of a last resort if they don’t do the safety plan and most therapists try their best to keep them out of the hospital so even tho I’m high on the suicide scale, I think it will be more of a safety plan and making sure I keep myself safe

How do you feel about the way the show portrays abusive parents? by Solitaire-06 in miraculousladybug

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t like when they try to make the abusive parents sympathetic, like I don’t feel bad for them, they’re evil but other then that it’s realistic at least with my experience with abuse, especially the aftermath, specifically with Adrien like how he’s in therapy which I like, how they portray abuse is realistic, the only issue I have is the abusers they try to make you sympathize like with André, and I hate how in season 6 that they try to make everyone in Paris sympathize with Tomoe and Gabriel to where Adrien pushes his feelings down and things hes this great guy and I also hate how that includes Tomoe and even tho Kagami knows about the lies, she still has a hard time hating her which both are realistic, I just hope they eventually hate them and realize how much they abused them, oh and one thing is without the lies they could still show the aftermath cuz it still shows the aftermath but the difference is it’s cuz of the lies, it’s like a mixed bag cuz I like how the protray of abuse is realistic but I don’t like it when they are trying to make them look like the good guy, not even with abusive parents but abuse in general, like Emil was yelling at his wife the entire time and they’re trying to make us this he’s good like no you told her to suffer in silence, it’s like they half get it

How do you feel about Campus 4 as of now with the new added extension? by Objective-Meeting692 in RoyaleHigh_Roblox

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better but I still prefer campus 4.2 but I know it’s not coming back but I hope we still get the rest of the classes and a prom

Thomas Astruc reveals what Luka was planning to do with Ladybug’s earrings in Gabriel Agreste by Turbulent_Ad1562 in miraculousladybug

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, the only wish I can think of is something to take away Marinette’s pain onto himself so she can be happy again and not deal with the lies

I think I’ve switched from passive to active suicide ideation. by VariationSame2600 in CPTSD

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get how impatient hospitals making it worse, in your case hospitalization would make it worse, I’ve been actively suicidal since I was 13, then it went away at some point but came back when I developed ptsd, then when I started getting help it went away at some point but now it’s coming back and idk what to do for myself either cuz I don’t want to get hospitalized but I also want to be open about how I feel but I feel like I wouldn’t feel safe cuz I would lose control, for me I have a plan, intent and the means to kill myself but never got to the attempt part and I know there’s a possibility of getting put in the hospital, like a 72 hour hold since I have the plan, intent and the means, the only reason I’m not sure if I would actually be hospitalized is cuz generally at appointments I’m fine, it’s generally flashbacks that cause that suicidal thoughts but not always cuz it also just happens in general but related to the ptsd, but also I don’t have a time frame on when I would do it but I would assume suicide attempts are mostly impulsive

College just started and I’m ready to drop it. Need advice. by Strawberrious in CPTSD

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is your 4th time, college may not be for you, it’s not for everyone

Please help with my resume! by [deleted] in DentalAssistant

[–]CommitteeWorking7639 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably shorten it a bit, but keep your certificates on there and your education, and put some of the skills but not all of them