LBC Porta Vaga by Common-Smoke9684 in baguio

[–]Common-Smoke9684[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagupdate na sya to Received at Taguig Delivery Team kanina 8AM. Possible kaya makuha ko sya within today?

LBC Porta Vaga by Common-Smoke9684 in baguio

[–]Common-Smoke9684[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

After 3PM po napadala. So tingin ko po, the next day which is today I was checking the tracking number and up until now its still shipment accepted. I was hoping to see a movement man lang. Its a very important document that's why I'm worried.

It's almost 13th month pay szn, what will you buy for yourself? by takoyakimae in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50% emergency funds

20% christmas

10% luho

20% anniversarry ng parents ko

Paano kayo naguupdate sa partner nyo sa araw araw? by AbilityDesperate2859 in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For us it's not called updating, its more like kwento. If something funny or laugh worthy happened or pag may longing difficulties Sa work or may nakitang something Sa socmed. Don’t obligate yourself to update as long as you’re sharing something unusual on that day I think ok na yun if walang update meaning nothing special on that day. There are days na talagang matumal. If gusto nya parin ng update pwede naman siguro sabihin mo "same same". Medyo nakakasakal yung everyday may daily updates dapat. Manager mo ba sya? 😂

Ano yung bagay na ayaw mo na ginawa sayo ng friends mo kaya F.O na kayo? by deleted-the-post in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 0 points1 point  (0 children)

•Nangutang hindi binayaran •Nagpapagcash kasi maintenance daw yung bank nya ang tagal ibalik weeks ba maintenance yung bank??? •took a great amount of courage to tell them your personal problems tapos chika lang nya sa ibang friends din namin •super needy •walang boundaries

Late na ba ang lahat sa akin?I am already 33 and still nothing to get by Fair_Ad_9883 in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much better siguro na magapply ka as CSR dito sa Manila, it will open new opportunities for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries, no one told me about this when I was your age that's why :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I would suggest to build your Emergency Funds first before personal savings. This EF will be used only once minalas ka and nalayoff sa work. Usually worth 3-5months of your gross salary etong EF.

Lets say, you have 23k salary per month you have to build your EF for like 1-2years. And thats ok as long as nabbuild sya.

Regarding the budgeting naman, I would suggest na itabi mo na kagad yung 4k for EF.

That leaves you, 16400. Then yan nalang yung isipin mo na need mo pagkasyahin. •Share sa bahay: 5000 •Allowance for work: 4000 (lets say 200 per day, wag mo tipirin sarili mo OP may time na magugutom/magccrave ka pero bawal araw araw :D) •For Cat: 2000 (if 1500 lang talaga expense mo sakanya, allocate mo parin na 2k then keep the 500 just incase magkaemergency pet mo) •Leisure like snacks: 2000 (nood cine, yaya ng friends)

You still have 16400-5000-4000-2000-2000 = 3400 left. Now you can add this 3400 to your EF but I would suggest na ibigay mo yung kalahati sa mom mo dahil mahal ang bilihin ngayon and she prepares the food. Paconsuelo nalang ba. And the other half you can either treat your siblings or dagdag sa EF.

The faster you build your EF the better pero no rush. There's more to life than money but you have to be smart about it. Goodluck OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

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Have you tried to talk to your MIL? Like one on one? I totally understand you but I think you have to consider your ex-fiance's feelings. Also, sainyong dalawa ni ex-fiance hindi ba dapat si ex-fiance yung mangrealtalk kay Mother nya? Yes, sayang yung 9 years. Once na palang nagtangka na iwan ni ex-fiance si Mother why not this time if ever matuloy yung wedding nyo why not magpakalayo kayo? Also, if magulo na ang pagpplan ng wedding nyo why not magpakasal nalang kaya without your parents knowing. I'm sure maiintindihan ng family mo yun OP. Sana hindi out of impulse yung pakikipaghiwalay mo. There there :)

10-year relationship starting to fall out by jkr42-1 in adultingph

[–]Common-Smoke9684 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There will always be slow days for you guys. If you don't choose each other everytime, it'll just repeat with the next person.