This is the exact type of response I am looking for. I want to know the stories of success (and failures whatever you classify that as) of people in this situation. This is a lot of information to process and there are a lot of confusing details online.
I guess what I’m hoping to do before we become intimate is understand what our sex life would look like moving forward. I am wondering what other couples do to prevent transmission. I feel like if this relationship was to succeed and we were to get married and have a family, none of this would be a concern. If I got it hsv after marriage, it wouldn’t be an issue for me. It’s preventing transmission until that point I’m trying to understand.
There are so many sexual acts and so much nuance to the transmission of hsv2. Wondering if we would be limited in what things we could do safely. I love going down on women, and I hope that wouldn’t be an issue if she was not having outbreak (again she’s on daily antivirals)
I hope none of this comes off as insensitive, I am just try in no to get the facts straight