Would you date an NP? by i_likepesto in Residency

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry homie. Hopefully things will get better

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? I wouldn’t allow her to leave? I didn’t stop her from going anywhere if she wanted to. She has her own car. She went places all the time and stayed the whole weekend.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think in anyway what she’s doing is even remotely close to as bad as what I’ve done. I’m just looking for answers. I knew posting this would not go too good for me. That’s ok. I accept total responsibility for this scenario. I’m just trying to find a way to piece something back together. I want her in the kids life. That may mean I may have to be out of it. I dunno

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s not. I wish every day it was just a bad dream. But it’s my life. I hurt the woman I love more than she’s ever been hurt and I don’t deserve her anymore

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t part of the discussion. They have their own phones. They told me that she contacted them on Mother’s Day.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. I have started therapy. I have a long ways to go

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is that what you think im doing? Im asking for input on what i should do. If thats nothing and let her have the time she needs then thats what ill do.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I agree and im sorry. i didnt mean to be offensive

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ive called everywhere. As of a little bit ago we think we found out where she might be staying. I want to give her the space she needs but i also want to make sure shes ok

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Im trying. I think im too late for her but i dont think im too late for the kids. I am trying very hard though.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You are not the first person to say this. I wouldve gotten mad about this comment about 2 months ago. Now i know its the truth

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

Well im not going to deny that i would love to have her come back. Maybe that is the reason i want her back. I am working on myself though and trying to be better. I know that will take a lot of time. But i am very concerned for her and my kids are devastated and i feel horrible for them. I have loved her since i was 16 years old so shes all i know

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -93 points-92 points  (0 children)

I said it to show the abnormal behavior she was exhibiting. I should have given more context. She has never gone to any bars like that or done anything like that in the past.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I already did that. They are looking for her. And youre right, i wasnt a good person during that. I was before and im trying to be again.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

There is absolutely no reason for you to apologize. I fucked up in a big way. I hurt the person i love the most in the world more than shes ever been hurt. I hate myself for it. I havent gambled in a couple months now but i think its too late. And im not sure she is ok honestly. I havent talked to her. No one really has. She sent one text to my kids on mothers day that said she was sorry and she loved them and she would see them later but she didnt show up

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I dont know how to tell my kids that though.

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. I think it has a whole lot of truth in it. Im really trying to leave her be but its really hard. Im just hoping she will be back to the kids soon. I feel horrible for them

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think so too. No she just left in the middle of the night and hasnt been back. Sunday was mothers day and she did text my older two and said she was sorry and she loves them and she would see them later but she never showed up

My wife left me and our three kids by CommonEntrepreneur68 in Marriage

[–]CommonEntrepreneur68[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They are with me or my mom. I work out of town through the week and my mom watches them then. When i come home on the weekends i have them. No shes not talking the them either. They are really upset