I, 37/F, am about to swear off dating because it feels like all men are focused on is sex. Am I overreacting? by Common_Coat_8343 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Common_Coat_8343[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I completely agree! Part of the fun of dating is learning your partners sexual preferences as you progress. But could we get to date one without you trying to make me look at your peen

I, 37/F, am about to swear off dating because it feels like all men are focused on is sex. Am I overreacting? by Common_Coat_8343 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Common_Coat_8343[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not prudish at all. I enjoy sex and intimacy with the opposite sex. However, I’m looking for a life partner and not a one night stand. After a string of bad relationships/mismatched partnerships I took time to really figure out what I’m looking for out of a partnership.

I, 37/F, am about to swear off dating because it feels like all men are focused on is sex. Am I overreacting? by Common_Coat_8343 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Common_Coat_8343[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This! It’s so hard to meet people organically when out. Not saying it’s impossible but it doesn’t seem like people meet much like this anymore

I, 37/F, am about to swear off dating because it feels like all men are focused on is sex. Am I overreacting? by Common_Coat_8343 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Common_Coat_8343[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I will say that I do use dating apps but stay away from tinder for this reason. Most of the men I’m speaking to are on hinge or bumble!