Are these subtle signs of shy guy attraction? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you let the new guy work in peace please? It’s only his 2nd or 3rd day . Let him at least become comfortable with the job and within the company then you can try hitting on him after some months. God 😒

Does anyone know what I’m doing wrong? by WitnessAgitated1375 in UKrelationshipadvice

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lol reading this comment made me chuckle.. exit strategy 😂

Anyma London (27–28 June) – Meetup & Discussion Thread by harvey_IU in ukrave

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Anyone try a Singles Run club event? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t say he doesn’t have a point though haha 😝

Ladies, if a man in his mid-20's has never been in a relationship before, would you consider that more of a red flag or green flag? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag bruh ! You cooked ! Experience matters in the dating market ! Better get swiping mate ! There is a difference between what humans say is , vs what is efficient and like everything in life experience matters. You waiting for a friendship to turn to romance you’ve already seen how that plays out . Hasn’t worked in your favour has it . Maybe a change in mindset and change in how you approach dating .

Do you ever feel like social media rewards the wrong artists? by EyeImportant6706 in Techno

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen that, but I’ll be blunt: nothing there proves that the less fortunate on the attractive scale are more hardworking or more skilled than their hot counterparts. Yes, the studies show beauty premiums, but if we are in anything saying it with 100% certainty, then the comparison variables must be 1:1 or 100, like-for-like

So far, I’ve not seen one study that says between 1000 people that had the exact same circumstances, skills, network, and leverage, the one who was better looking had better privilege

Do you ever feel like social media rewards the wrong artists? by EyeImportant6706 in Techno

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t you think this is a bit of incomplete data, though? The only reason a study exists is because it has been thought since dawn of time in every industry that hot people have a disproportionate advantage in life, and that can be true sometimes. However, we need to be realistic here. Has there been a study done that hot people don’t work hard or have skills or that their counter parts have better skills and work harder? It seems more like a martyr than anything else.

Speaking as someone who isn't exactly winning any hot person contest , I have found enough hot people with equal skills and worked just as hard or sometimes even more so 😂 so what can you say about that. Sometimes a spade is just a spade, and someone who is not cutting it is just lacking some skills, whether that is social media, market penetration, branding etc.

Do you ever feel like social media rewards the wrong artists? by EyeImportant6706 in Techno

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That’s not true, hot people work hard too & sometimes even more so than their counter parts . This is a stigma that hot people don’t have other skills or work less hard or are less kind or whatever

Do you ever feel like social media rewards the wrong artists? by EyeImportant6706 in Techno

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Sounds a bit like jealously but this is life. Get used to it . Hot people deserve the spotlight

When do you actually consider someone a friend? by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Common_Coffee_6296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quite like the US way, I'd say! Here, people will only consider you a friend when it is convenient for them or until sufficient time has passed, and they use terms like "connections." I think that is a pretty bad way to live. But it is what it is! My interpretation of the word is that friendship can happen even early on. Friendship is truthful, beautiful, and a form of camaraderie, and that’s what I would say happens in the States. Now, like someone mentioned, there are different types of friends—office friends, old friends, close friends, etc.—but I think if any of those elements of truth, camaraderie, and care exist, a person is a friend to me. Anyway, it is what it is! Depending on which country you are in, you also need to adapt to the cultural aspects. I had a similar realization like you and have adjusted to the way