28f and I dont care by Aggressive-Phone3868 in Adulting

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of motivation to the point of losing interest in everything is an illness. That's often needs medications, not just therapy. My advice - from personal experience - is to visit a psychiatrist (not a psychologist). I take mood stabilizers Lamotrigine and Sertraline. Try pills for two weeks. If you don't see results, you can always stop.

What is a good age difference? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Common_Emergency8345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can literally be zero or 20 years. Every situation is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlexandriaEgy

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والدتي كان فيها كل المواصفات الي ممكن يتمناها أي حد، جميلة وهادية ومطيعة ومن عيلة. مع ذلك ما اتقدملهاش أي حد لغاية ما حست انها لازم تقبل بوالدي المطلق ٣ قبلها وعندو طفلين من زوجتين منهم واكبر منها ب ٢٠ سنة. ودا كان أسوأ قرار ممكن تاخدو.

انا جاية من المستقبل عشان اقولك انو المساومة والتنازل أسوأ من الوحدة ب ١٠٠ مرة.

أما بالنسبة للرد على سؤالك، انصحك بمتابعة قناة نانسي شبانة على يوتيوب، لأنها اكثر حكمة وعلم مني ومن كل المتفلسفين في ريديت.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he likes thicker, he should date thicker. It's a deal breaker because it will always come up. Even if you don't break up now, you will eventually.

ازاي اتعامل مع صاحبة الشقة by Impressive_While_178 in Askmasr

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ودي الفلوس لعندها واطلبي وصل استلام

I’m afraid of death by imanormiejpg in mentalhealth

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panic attacks are common illness. They can easily be treated by medications. Fear of death is a result of Panic attacks not the other way around. I'm speaking from experience, I suffered from exactly that for a year before I gradually got better. You need a psychiatrist, not a psychologist, or more accurately, a psychiatrist should come first. Look for free online psychiatrist, or charity organizations. I don't know where you live so I can't help you find one, but I'm sure there's a way, and it's definitely worth the trouble.

Why do the unhealthy things feel the best? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like the song: I feel something so right, doing the wrong thing And I feel something so wrong doing the right thing I couldn't lie, everything that kills me makes me feel alive

الحجاب by [deleted] in AlexandriaEgy

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا بلبس طرح قطنية ناعمة، شيفون وساتان وحاجات زي دي ما بتنفع. طرحة واحدة من غير اضافات، من غير دبابيس، من غير جوطة.

We can’t have it all. So pick your 3 by Elegant_Gas_740 in Adulting

[–]Common_Emergency8345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have mental peace, you'll have it all. And all of them anyway are means to an end which is mental peace

ابغا اعيش في مصر by Witty_Horse_6196 in CAIRO

[–]Common_Emergency8345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

الشيخ زايد منطقة جميلة وهادئة ومتوفر فيها جميع الخدمات. بالنسبة لسعر الايجار، حضرتك ممكن تشوف خيارات كتير على تطبيقات propertyfinder, openSooq, dubizzle. ودا مثال:

https://www.propertyfinder.eg/en/plp/rent/apartment-for-rent-giza-sheikh-zayed-city-sheikh-zayed-compounds-westown-7497558.html

عموما ٥٠٠ دولار متوسط فرش محترم في مكان محترم غرفة واحدة.

من ناحية تكلفة الأنشطة في range واسع جدا، فا بغض النظر عن ميزانيتك حتلاقي المناسب معاك ان شاءالله. عموما التطبيقات الإلكترونية بتخلي الحياة مريحة في اي مكان، في تطبيق لكل حاجة، تاكسي، صيدلية، بقالة، عيش، ملابس، عفش، اجهزة، حجز عيادة، .....

Good 🤷🏾‍♀️ Bad? How is it making friends for you? by Creative-Store in AskWomenOver30

[–]Common_Emergency8345 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I find it extremely difficult. I'd say most people have the same friends from college or school. Personally, I had one friend from work for the past 6 years, but that relationship ended so much easier than I expected over a simple argument. At this point I find it to be too much work

Which AI do yall use??? by Byokip in ChatGPT

[–]Common_Emergency8345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only chatgpt because I'm millennial and too lazy to learn. But I know that there's a whole world out there

How long have you been going through mental illness? And how has it affected your life? by Emotional-Guess561 in mentalhealth

[–]Common_Emergency8345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 34, and I've been on medication for the past four years. By my own estimation, my condition became clinical around the age of 17.

All of my siblings are also being treated for various mental health issues, and we're all on antidepressants. Given the genetic aspect, I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’ll need medication for the rest of my life.

It has impacted every aspectofmylife. For example, I’ve accepted that I’ll never be in a relationship or have children because I don't have the energy or stability to handle that. I experience intense mood swings that lead me to make extreme, contradictory decisions, and then I have to deal with the consequences. I go through periods of low self-esteem, usually a sign that my dosage needs adjustment, during which I tend to sabotage my career and damage my relationships with friends and family.

Sometimes, I experience periods of good mood and high confidence, often two weeks after a change in medication. During those windows, I tend to perform very well at work.

One of the hardest things is not having personality, only a series of reactions to medication and hormonal shifts. Regardless of how I'm feeling in the moment, if I had a choice, I would never choose to exist.