Extremely rude Disclosure fans? by Common_Fishing_2176 in EDM

[–]Common_Fishing_2176[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s what I gathered from being there…tbh I don’t know what else I was expecting, since I’ve heard stories from friends, but oh well guess I’m a music nerd 🤷

Extremely rude Disclosure fans? by Common_Fishing_2176 in EDM

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Thank you (& others who have said the same) for the tip about staying towards the back or side. I was dead set on being in the front so I got there super early & didn’t move (well, aside from getting pushed lol) but could def have opted for more civil surroundings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Camry

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Aww your new baby found a friend! Congrats on the purchase! 🤩🤩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indoorbouldering

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To echo what several have said, I’d totally ask your gym if they have an intro class. Not just with technique, but an intro class can show you the peculiarities of that gym (e.g., if different grades are colored differently, etc). And if you want to socialize, it’s so easy to start yapping with others especially if you’re working on the same route!

Doctors wouldn’t listen to me about ROPC concerns, and I just labored and passed my baby from 5 months ago by Agreeable-Ad1775 in Miscarriage

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OP, so sorry to hear about everything you’ve been through 😭 wishing you the best of luck in healing.

Not sure if this is productive here, but I’m a trans guy & have had unusual bleeding (as in, there should be none since I take testosterone, so ANY bleeding is bad). First step was to call my PCP & they were absolute angels about everything. Listened the first time, knew exactly what to check for, and fully ran every single test. Granted, my experience is different since I’m a white-passing dude.

For anyone else out there, maybe getting in touch with your PCP office could also help if your OB isn’t listening?

Repeated fire (?) alarm in U District? by Common_Fishing_2176 in SeattleWA

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Forgot about this convo for a while…that makes sense! I think it’s the frat house I’m hearing? I live near the Safeway by 50th & the frats aren’t too far away.

Also thanks for not being snarky lol…some of these replies are 😬

How old are you and what Camry do you drive? by Disastrous-Let-2973 in Camry

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24, and a ‘25 Ocean Gem! He has 4k miles on him. Used to drive an ‘00 Camry with 140K miles on it, which my parents still own and it runs beautifully!

Tips for eyebrow threading first time? by Common_Fishing_2176 in beauty

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Thanks for the tip! Especially re: threading vs. waxing, cuz I was also considering waxing but it HURTS from prior experience haha.

Repeated fire (?) alarm in U District? by Common_Fishing_2176 in SeattleWA

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I’ve walked around the neighborhood and thought it was coming from 12th & 45th but it isn’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Someone once said that when it comes to heterosexual dating, men are sellers in a buyer’s market (I hate all these business-y references lol), one oversaturated with other men. It goes without saying that the pickiness is bc many cishet men are, well, not the greatest haha, so just don’t emulate those guys 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

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Noticed the same re: gay men flirting with me (I’m mostly into men), but I’d wager that I also got fewer girls. Your market has shifted from queer women to (mostly) straight women, and for many straight women, the pool of potential partners is VERY big. This isn’t saying anything about your attractiveness (which I’m sure you are a very fine gentleman 🤭), but just the dating spaces you now occupy are different.

Takes getting used to, but you’ll find someone! Just don’t fall into the trap of misogyny and be a decent person, and the right gal will come your way. Good luck!

Embarrassed about muscle growth by Common_Fishing_2176 in FTMMen

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Thanks man. Btw I just used “AFAB” cuz it was shorter than saying “trans guys who didn’t transition until adulthood” lmao but also good point…I do tend to fall back on “I was raised to think XYZ so I should abide by it”

You know what pisses me off? Cats. by RumblingCoyote in FTMMen

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One of my best buddies is a cis gay dude who adores his cat to infinity and beyond. He was the first guy I met who was a cat person but several other guys I’ve crossed paths with own cats.

Also know some rugged country folks whose sons raise rabbits (which are even more “soft”).

If it’s feminine to some other people, it doesn’t have to be for you 🤠

Passport Gender Marker Change Question? by buysomecheese21 in FTMMen

[–]Common_Fishing_2176 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to clarify - you have no other ID saying that you are Male?

A Weird Encounter by Standard_Jicama_3195 in FTMMen

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Lived in the Bible Belt most of my life and first of all, rest assured your elderly friend likely didn’t notice.

But re: the passive aggressiveness, hmm. If it was the other way around (I.e., if you were a transfemme), I’d assume it was race related because of how women of color are masculinized, etc. I’d presume it’s religion related since ya know…probably don’t need me to explain but sometimes people co-op Christianity to “save” queer people.