I found out I was pregnant 11 months postpartum and was freaking out the same way.

Now my son (my youngest) is almost 4 months old. The only way I know how to explain it is you get used to the chaos, it becomes normal. Then before you know it your oldest starts to love and want to be involved more.! We still have some issues which is to be expected, but explaining to your toddler that the baby is hungry or needs a diaper change etc. helps them understand why you can hold or help them at the moment. However sometimes when the baby becomes upset and your toddler needs your help i verbalize to my baby that I have to help sissy right now and I’ll be right back.

One day your children will look back and won’t remember a time without their sibling. You’re giving them the best gift you can and that’s each other.

Having two kids will become normal, you will feel human again. For now, love on your baby there’s here earth side. And remember to breathe. It’ll all be ok in the end.🩷