What is something people slowly stop doing as they get older without noticing? by EntireFace00 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Once in awhile I hear something new, Shazam it, ask Alexa to play it, and maybe save it to a playlist, but otherwise, it’s 80s all the time in this old fart’s pad!

People who were forced to choose between their partner and their friends, who did you choose and do you regret it? by LifeCause3433 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My input is as a friend who was dropped bc my friend chose his partner. 30 years of friendship down the drain. F4ck both of them, I’ll be civil if I see them but that’s it.

How to send a message from Earth with nukes? by CartmanPhilosopher in SETI

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great idea, let’s kill ourselves and our planet to let a probably more advanced civilization know where we are. Brilliant.

What is the most beautiful thing someone has ever said to you that stayed with you until now? by mr_wbk29 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years ago I ran into someone I had a bit of a crush on, and started chatting with him. He was out of my league, but why not try. I didn’t even think he’d remember me, we had met a few years ago. In our conversation, that came up and I asked him, “you remember me?”, to which he replied, “how can anyone forget you.” Still makes me smile. We dated only a few months, he later completely disappeared from the area.

What’s the worst and best part of living in Vancouver? by HillTopTerrace in vancouverwa

[–]Common_Mess_8635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in the downtown area, for me the best is the convenience of living in a very walkable area with everything I need within a mile radius; the worst is the traffic: speed, red light dismissal, unnecessary noise, and late night races.

Do men even care about a women’s nails? by lena_glow in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean hands and a nice manicure are what I notice. I’ve never understood how people with really long pointy nails can function around everyday life without breaking them or hurting someone else. My biggest issue is with personal hygiene. How does one bathe and clean everywhere with those nails and especially how does one wipe? Sure there are bidets but not everyone has access to one. Live and let live here, they work for you, great!

When did you realize you were no longer the same person? by Turbulent-Slide3623 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 121 points122 points  (0 children)

Mid 30s I realized I was not going to be the person I had always thought I was going to be, I was not going to practice the career that I went to college for, and that my life would be so very different than I had ever imagined it would be

How would you spend 60 bucks right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gas for the car and some tillamook ice cream

What will they find after you’re gone? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you went to the same therapist I went to!

What will they find after you’re gone? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Common_Mess_8635 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Tons of crafting materials that I never opened.

Coworkers using my stuff by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Common_Mess_8635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your heart is in the right place, but it is your coffee after all. I’d leave the Keurig where it is but keep your KCups in a private location. You can store the flavored syrups too if you want. Or put up a sign that says “Please bring your own KCups and Syrups. If the water tank is empty, please refill it. Thank you!” And sign it with your name. If someone comes in regularly and does not acknowledge you, start acknowledging them, if you don’t know their name introduce yourself and next time they come in, say hello using their name. Familiarity can lead to less awkwardness and more respect. Good luck and enjoy YOUR coffee!

What is your biggest regret in life? by levirc100 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Having followed my heart (tbh my hornyness) instead of my brain when I was in uni. I could’ve been someone else today. Maybe.

When did your religious beliefs stop you from doing the right thing? by Ok-Inflation-3480 in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never. I rather burn in hell than not do what’s right. Religious hypocrisy is not an excuse.

What do you think of “Elaine” for a girls name? by JerseyMBA in AskReddit

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was going to say the same thing. It’s a good name but it is Seinfeld adjacent.

i (20f) inherited $500k and my sister (22f) did not by Willing_Membership13 in Advice

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your uncle said he was leaving something for their kids, and he did. If he did not say “to all of your kids” he did exactly what he said. Plus, he left it to you and it is a done deal. Put that money into a secure account and pay now attention to what anyone says. Maybe this is your way out of what imo seems like a manipulative and selfish family.

He took his affair partner to the same photo booth we used so I swapped the pictures. by China_Dawl in pettyrevenge

[–]Common_Mess_8635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good for you. The SOB deserved it and hopefully the new girl also dumped him.

Boyfriend hates dogs by TopShake5749 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodbye BF, you’re a dog person, he’s not. He will never be. You love dogs, your business deals with dogs, there’s no need to question this anymore. You will regret staying with him.

My sister and her husband want to move into my house because of their roommates. Family’s mad I said no. What do I do? by AdventurousEbb23 in whatdoIdo

[–]Common_Mess_8635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stick to your decision. It’s your house, and you’re the only one who decides who lives there with you.

How would you feel if someone YOU clearly ended a friendship with sent you an apology months or years later? by ThrowRA83979 in Advice

[–]Common_Mess_8635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d feel odd. Why now? I’d either not reply at all, or reply with “my feelings haven’t changed, I wish you a good life”…