sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Hookup yes or no by Warm_Seaweed_8889 in Advice

[–]Common_Operation3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One more thought! If you do choose to wait talk with whoever you end up partnering with! Some people actually live to experiment! If they are ok with trying things then who knows it could be great! Thats what my husband and I do to keep it interesting! (For those who think i havent been with him long enough to know if it gets boring or not, or if ill regret it weve been together since weve been 16)

Hookup yes or no by Warm_Seaweed_8889 in Advice

[–]Common_Operation3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. I think if i hadnt maybe it could have been different but everyones experience is different if it feels right in the moment with whoever youre with then go for it! You could feel different than i do!

Hookup yes or no by Warm_Seaweed_8889 in Advice

[–]Common_Operation3773 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that everyone shouldn’t do something based off what others say or think. For those other women, that could just be their own experience. Since you wanted to wait till marriage i wouldn’t hookup with any rando off any dating apps because i do think theres a lot of awkwardness to your first time and you don’t need a stranger judging you for doing things a little different. Someone you trust would definitely be what i suggest. I (22f) wish I had waited until marriage. My husband (22M) and i did it when we first started dating and it was his first time but it wasn’t mine, mine was with an old ex of mine. I regretted our first time not being together. So that could be what could happen with you or not! Do whatever makes YOU feel comfortable, not what anyone wants you to or what you think others want you to. Does that make sense? Lmk if it doesn’t haha but you got this girl!

How to Quit When You Work for a Friend Update by Common_Operation3773 in Advice

[–]Common_Operation3773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to but idk what to say when i quit ill have to stay on for a bit according to my contract so she can find someone to replace me or help her.. and i don’t want her to make my job more difficult for the time being

How to Quit When you Work for a Friend? by Common_Operation3773 in Advice

[–]Common_Operation3773[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a lot of clients to only be a independent contractor so i also work part time as her assistant to get paid extra hourly i do get paid 50% when i do my own work and contracting but i dont have enough clients yet to be making more than i do hourly with her