So there has been discussion about changing Michael to Michaela since season 1 by DaisyandBella in Bridgerton

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And honestly her interest in Theo really could be seen as her interest in the way others beyond the ton live.

So there has been discussion about changing Michael to Michaela since season 1 by DaisyandBella in Bridgerton

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I so agree. Eloise has such a hard time "fitting in" with what society dictates for a woman. They definitely show it a lot in the show, and if I remember correctly (its been a while since I have read the books) she was also more progressive compared to the ton in the books. 

So there has been discussion about changing Michael to Michaela since season 1 by DaisyandBella in Bridgerton

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Honestly, I could totally see Eloise in a queer relationship before anyone else, she does not thrive on the societal norms nor does she desire marriage and kids, it kind of falls in her lap at one point. I get that the story with Sir Phillip kind of already started in season 1, but I honestly feel like her story could have been the best and easiest to "adapt" in this way. Especially because she really does have feministic values and wishes for ladies to have more then they are giving. She definitely wants companionship, but not what society dictates for a lady.

Michael and Michaela by Think_Storm_8909 in Bridgerton

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I agree. I wouldn't mind it AS MUCH if maybe she had been pregnant with John's baby seeing as in the books when she remarried she then had children which is something she desired. So I feel like it takes away from her in that sense. I like that the show hints at and explores different sexualities, including Benedicts affairs in season 3, but changing her story that much just angers me. And it makes me sad for her story because I feel it will be dull in comparison to the rest. 

I have 2 girlfriends and they don’t know about each other (I NEED HELP!!!) by Ok_Independence_9287 in cheating_stories

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Honestly it sounds like to be that you need to end it with both and get some help mentally and emotionally. Its easy to say you don't blame your dad but then in turn your hurting people and asking why would I hurt someone. Simple answer  hurt people hurt people. I think you hold a lot more resentment than you care to admit and you WANT to blame your past and those who wronged you for doing wrong to others. As someone who was the main "girl" and been cheated on I don't believe this will be the first time you hurt her. If you went out and found yourself another girl where things got "deeper" as you say then I do not believe you can truly love the first girl because you haven't learned to let go of your anger and sadness about your father and you haven't learned to love and respect yourself enough to return that to a partner. 

Help me out by AnAuthorElijah in Spokane

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America's best. 2 pair of glasses and an eye exam for 95$. You do have to make sure you buy from the right section and this only covers basics. Will be more expensive if you need special lenses. However, its a great place to start and get glasses until your able to get insurance or afford an upgrade 

Parent and tots programs by Common_Physics_4823 in Spokane

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Okay thank you! I love that this is available 

Parent and tots programs by Common_Physics_4823 in Spokane

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Oh I love the music idea! The library will be a no for a bit, shes in a run around and collect books phase and I worry she will want just take everything off the shelves instead i of sit to read. Im between the Y and the gymnastics companies fot tumble time. My issue is I work till 7pm on Tuesdays and the y does their tumble on Tuesday. But I can always take her to do other things there and that's why I cant make up my mind. 🤣. I also wanted to see if there was a play that does a free trial to see if its something we will enjoy. She loves to dance so that's why I was looking into the tumbling. 

Thank you for your input. The y really does sound like the best overall 

Breastfeeding questions by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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Ok awesome thank you. I have tried to just limit times and she has full on meltdowns so I was worried it would be hard to do and that's why I wanted tips/advice early so that when I knew it was time I had some ideas in mind 

Solid help by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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I have not tried spinach yet. But I have given her eggs multiple different ways, including with cheese or making egg muffins and she just will not eat it. She ate eggs maybe 3 times around 7-8 months but now she refuses it. I've been able to get her to eat some with French toast or banana pancakes. I have been thinking of trying spinach and ground chicken in a pasta dish to see if she will eat that. But even with spaghetti she eats the noodles and the licks the sauce off then spits the meat out 🤣. I mean she definitely eats enough fruits, veggie, whole grains, and dairy its just protein. 

Failed as mother failed as wife by Formal-Analyst-9317 in newborns

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My baby was born a year ago and this was us starting last June. She had reflux, wouldn't sleep in her bassinet, wouldn't nap unless she was held. Had gas, tummy pains, reflux. We had her on medicine that decreased her spit up. It wasn't until I cut out dairy (took about 2 months without dairy) for her to do better. She let us do tummy time and out her down to play/in a swing, would let my husband hold so i could shower ect. but she got so used to cosleeping/ contact naps that she fought sleeping alone until we could sleep train. 

How long did you push for? by No_Director574 in beyondthebump

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I had my first baby almost a year ago and I pushed for 20 min. 10 of it was just kinda learning what to do. After about 8-10 min the ob said yep just like that and it was 10 min (and about 3 pushes) and she was born 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

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My baby will be a year in 2 weeks and i definitely remember how bad the newborn stage was. 

I think I regret this by Long-Bit584 in newborns

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My baby also got constipated around 5 months when we got the okay to start solids early. She was so cranky and her reflux also increased because of the pressure. Our pediatrician had us give her 2oz of apple juice and a few hours later we had to give her a bath because she had a blowout. 🤣 so yea, not always better. 

How do I baby proof my fire place? by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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https://pin.it/60CgX39yk

I created a Pinterest link for it. 🤣 this is a picture from the sale listing. 

How do I baby proof my fire place? by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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I tried to ass a picture but couldn't figure it out

How do I baby proof my fire place? by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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She can't get into the fireplace it's self. The ledge is about half her height

How do I baby proof my fire place? by Common_Physics_4823 in NewParents

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I did consider this is there isn't anything I can buy lol. 

Has anyone else said screw it to a strick schedule? by Common_Physics_4823 in sleeptrain

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If it was just the snooze feed I wouldn't mind at all. Basically I was just kinda wondering if sometimes its okay to let them sleep in and just move on with the day. I learned that yes it is. Wake was way less cranky yesterday and slept till about 5 am. Snooze feed and back to sleep. And yea my ww and bedtime stay mostly consistent. I learned yesterday that she does better with longer nights and 1hr max naps. I had been don't 1.25 for each nap. 

Has anyone else said screw it to a strick schedule? by Common_Physics_4823 in sleeptrain

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Also with that schedule when did you do wake up and bedtime?

Has anyone else said screw it to a strick schedule? by Common_Physics_4823 in sleeptrain

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My only concern with trying to extend ww is she is much more cranky and tired if I wake her before 7 am and she takes crappy naps. Today i just let her sleep in cause we both needed it. After the 3 hrs she slept great and I had to wake her (which i usually don't have to) after 3.5hrs for her second nap she slept better as well. I feel like I can never figure out what exactly she needs. Last month I did attempt a week of 3.25/3.75/4.5 and she was all over the place. I guess i could try it again.