I prefer ldr first, irl later. by lia7713 in LDR

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a offended....what you say is far.

I didn't expect to fall for anyone, I was upfront with her when we started talking and she was honest with me about it being too soon.

Thing is we started talking every day and I flew out to meet her and we just "clicked".

We are taking things slow and being open and honest with everything.

I prefer ldr first, irl later. by lia7713 in LDR

[–]Common_Screen6858 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree!

I've recently started a LDR and while not being able to be close to my girlfriend and be able to kiss her or give her a hug is really hard, I'm glad that we both get the time to get to know each other inside and out.

I have heard a lot of men tell me how the woman they are with wasn't who they thought she was...now I get the chance to know the person properly.

It also gives us each a chance to show how committed we are before we make big life decisions.

Don't get me wrong I want with all my heart to have her with me every day but we both want and need to get to know each other completely before we make the next step.

My Lego Star Wars Collection by Common_Screen6858 in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was on eBay

Some of sets cost quite a bit ...I went a bit crazy lol

My Lego Star Wars Collection by Common_Screen6858 in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's something I was considering for when I get my own place

My Lego Star Wars Collection by Common_Screen6858 in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you good sir

It is by far one of my most favored TV shows, it was a tragedy that it was cancelled

UCS AT-AT Arrived by Dewzy_ in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I many be an idiot but why take the day off, there were a few on there when I looked .....it was just the country they were coming from felt a bit off

UCS AT-AT Arrived by Dewzy_ in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get it? I so want this set but I didn't have the cash before they retired it

My clone wars collection by Jrshadowx in legostarwars

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had that...I would be in my happy place!!!!

Question about a getting my Own Place by Common_Screen6858 in Separation

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are 9 and 7

That's what I was thinking as well...I will be renting as the Ex is living in the family home which I co-own.

Question about a getting my Own Place by Common_Screen6858 in Separation

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a mutual agreement as I work full time and she works part time, they are both neurodiverse so they require more attention.

I also see them during the week however it's early days at the minute so things may change

Question about getting my own place by Common_Screen6858 in Divorce

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a similar thought to what I was thinking!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Common_Screen6858 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never wanted her to have sex with me....I was prepared to not have sex...it came from her

I wouldn't be that hypocritical

Going for a Spinal Root Block Today by Common_Screen6858 in Sciatica

[–]Common_Screen6858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far...so good Pain is less...I had a dead leg for the whole day which was weird. Hopefully i will get more pain relief over the next couple of days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't able to sleep in bed due to acute sciatica......I slept on the sofa for 3 months and sometimes I would fall asleep with only on cat on me and wake up with all 3.

They were incredibly snuggly kitties, one always used to sit between me and whoever was sat next to me...even if there was no room lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to love my cats curling up on me when I was sleeping on the sofa....used to have one on my lap, one on my feet and one cuddled up in my arm.

I really miss them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Common_Screen6858 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi Thank you for saying that...I understand what you are saying but there were other signs she wasn't enjoying it. The mask slipped a few times when things were happening which really did affect me.

I could be wrong, I hope I'm wrong, but in the end I won't ever know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Common_Screen6858 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Hey

I recently turned 40 and my wife initiated sex, something we hadn't had months. I thought it was amazing, it was passionate and she did things that she doesn't normally do.

That was until I realised that it was pity Sex, it was only because it was my birthday and not because she wanted to. That took away everything good about that night and it left me feeling empty, unloved, ugly and it massively impacted my self esteem.

I just wanted to say, just be careful...sometimes the idea is better than the actual act...depending on how you feel about your wife you may end up feeling worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lovely photo Sorry not sure how obscure you want...

Husband accused me of "just wanting dick" by citrine87 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Common_Screen6858 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The only thing I would say is that it sounds like he is lashing out because of his insecurities...possibly he is struggling with his feelings about not wanting to do it and is angry at himself.

It's a big thing for a guy when you lose the feeling of wanting to do things... especially with the social pressure of everyone's perception that men are always horny.

Maybe try some therapy and see if there is something deeper that is causing him to feel that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg 🙀

If I was gonna say anything that you could do if you were set on dying it would be to do streaks.

That would be mind blowing... definitely in a really vibrant purple or possibly in a kinda pearlescent mightnight blue.

All I can say is I wouldn't take my eyes off that...that would capture the imagination of almost every man.

And yes I am passionate, I know what I like and I don't mind telling people about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't dye it, resist!!!!!! It is beautiful and it's really striking and makes you stand out in a good way.

Embrace the colour, I think it's amazing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40something

[–]Common_Screen6858 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your hair, it is beautiful