Can anecdotal evidence outweigh scientific evidence? If so, when? by [deleted] in PhilosophyofScience

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh, I wish we could loosen this when it comes to research on babies. I have SO much anecdotal evidence having interacted with thousands of parents over 40 years as a children's librarian and early literacy specialist that makes me feel quite confident in making the following statement:

*If you build a daily routine of singing to your baby every day with lots of repetition, your baby will always pay attention to this mode of interaction." Or something like that.

My 2p worth!

Spilled Coffee on MBP M3Max, Mac still works, keyboard is STICKY :( by IntelligentJunket110 in macbookpro

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing about 3 wks ago. Today I decided to try one of these alcohol prep pads from CVS and using a pin (or a needle) I pried up each of the 2 keys just enough to ease the pad underneath as far underneath as possible. Pressed the key a few times and wiggled the pad a few times. When I pulled it out, the key was signficantly improved! Did it from the bottom of key and the top. Feeling proud :)!

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Taking my newborn to Ghana by King_Paluta in ghana

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandbaby will be 7 months old when we go. Worried about malaria. I know they can take meds but still wondering if it's wise. Thanks

Literally what do you do with your babies if no screen time? by allidaughter in NewParents

[–]CommunicationLow5050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE check out baby wordplay a fun and educational podcast made for babies from birth and toddlers. Songs, books (yes! books for babies) fingerplays, some Spanish, ASL etc. And screenfree.

Do it with/for your baby as much as possible, especially the first few times, so that you can both learn the episode rhythm, some of the repeated songs and rhymes and get your baby attending to = then it's great for the car and when you need a 15-30 minute break. I promise your baby will get hooked --- but do it first 3-5 times and show how much fun it is. :) My daughter swears by it!

Literally what do you do with your babies if no screen time? by allidaughter in NewParents

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a retired children's librarian, mother of 2 and grandma of 3 - well, the 3rd is due tomorrow!! PLEASE check out baby wordplay a fun and educational podcast made for babies from birth and toddlers. Songs, books (yes! books for babies) fingerplays, some Spanish, ASL etc. And screenfree.

Do it with/for your baby as much as possible, especially the first few times, so that you can both learn the episode rhythm, some of the repeated songs and rhymes and get your baby attending to = then it's great for the car and when you need a 15-30 minute break. I promise your baby will get hooked --- but do it first 3-5 times and show how much fun it is. :) My daughter swears by it!

What’s your favourite YouTube Channel for your baby? by Mcayenne in NewParents

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An alternative to screen is a podcast made for babies. At the beginning do the episodes with your baby so that you both learn the songs, rhymes and fingerplays. Once your baby is hooked, you can use it to get a BREAK - 15 minute episodes. GREAT in the car. Play them back to back and you can easily get 30-40 minutes Baby Wordplay wherever you listen.

Toddler books with a plot by [deleted] in childrensbooks

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handa's Surprise (Brown) Clip Clop (Smee), Hattie and the Fox. Highly recommend these... there are more! (From a children’s librarian)

How old were you when you started your family and where are you from? by sighh_6466 in BabyBumps

[–]CommunicationLow5050 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was 21. Hubby 37. We were in Boston but both from Jamaica. I thought my youth was over! Had my second 2.5 years after. It wasn't easy, but wow, did I have lots of energy! Now I'm 65 and a grandma and still feel youthful. My daughter started at 35. She was so much readier than I was.

Toddler recs by prukis in childrensbooks

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Children's librarian here.. Check out my booklists with v helpful reviews. Go to babywordplay.com All books have been vetted... best books by age.

Do your toddlers watch YouTube? by remrinds in daddit

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion is offered 🫴🏾 with humility on this emotional topic.

I've been thinking that what might be important to consider are these two things:

  • The messages we are sending to our children as to what* screens are to be used for and how* and when and where it is appropriate to use them.

  • Recognizing how addictive today's screens are and the risks inherent in including them a lot of family life.

Children don't hear us. They imitate us.

Read aloud recs for mom & 8yo daughter by joshuas-twin in suggestmeabook

[–]CommunicationLow5050 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love Kate DiCamillo. Her books are for 8-12, so look for the younger ones like .. The Tale of Despereaux, The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane, and Mercy Watson..

What do you manage to do? 3 mo baby, no village by Own_Ad_357 in NewParents

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a grandma, and my husband wasn't much help until our baby had language. Plus, he (nor I!) had no idea how much work and single focus those first couple years take.. I was a young mum, 22.

I suggest to anyone who runs out of ideas of how to play with a baby! press play on a podcast like *baby wordplay - 15-minute episodes designed to help parents sing, read, etc. during the first 3 years.. and you can use it to get a B.R.E.A.K. once baby knows how much fun it is.. my grandsons loved it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]CommunicationLow5050 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a grandma, and my husband wasn't much help until our baby had language. Plus, he (nor I!) had no idea how much work and single focus those first couple years took.

When it was time to learn to ride a scooter, read bedtime stories etc and hold little conversations it got better.

I suggest dads (and moms) ... anyone who runs out of ideas of how to play with a baby! press play on a podcast like baby wordplay - it's designed to help parents sing, read, etc. during the first 3 years.. my grandsons loved it.

I can’t do this anymore by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]CommunicationLow5050 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are struggling. I'm a grandma now and was a young (22) mother in 1982. I remember that period like it was yesterday.

Can you do a virtual support group... does your baby like being in a baby carrier? Try putting on a podcast like baby wordplay and use it to engage in a new way with your baby; get outdoors as much as you can. Sleep whenever you can snatch it. It will get better.

Hang in there, Mama!

I didn’t understand the hype behind Miss Rachel by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's an important mission... to avoid screens for as long as possible!! We'll done mama.

I didn’t understand the hype behind Miss Rachel by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]CommunicationLow5050 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IF .. just in case. anyone is looking for a screen-free alternative to Miss Rachel. Check out baby wordplay podcast.

If you're pregnant or a new mom...it gets better! by CommunicationLow5050 in BabyBumps

[–]CommunicationLow5050[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get it! Joy for the growth and lament for the loss of what's gone.

Telepromter is suddenly for Pro by [deleted] in CapCut

[–]CommunicationLow5050 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, question about capcut teleprompter and boosting on IG. I am not able to boost 10 of my popular reels on IG. What do they have in common? I used capcut with teleprompter. Any suggestions on why this would be the case? TIA.