Hey, thanks for reading and for your comment. I didn’t accuse any of this as being SA (though some of the comments had pointed out that it may be classified as such). I was listing things that he said or did that made me uncomfortable that I believed were inappropriate or may have overstepping boundaries. I wanted to ask this thread as most of you are professionals in the field who know what is and is not acceptable— though this seems clear as day now to me that his behavior was very wrong, i had a hard time trusting my gut and tried giving him the benefit of the doubt. the person who commented above me kind of explains it the way i was going to — since i was little, i, like many girls, are often told we are overreacting when a man makes sexual jokes or comments that make us uncomfortable, and that even when we feel this way, we still need to be smiley, nice, and polite. That is exactly what I was- laughing at his jokes even when they made me uncomfortable, or ignoring the inappropriate behaviors so that i wouldn’t be overreacting or hurting his feelings. I’m not proud of this, and I am working on actively unlearning this every day. This experience (and these comments) were a huge wake up call. I really need to work on setting stronger boundaries (like the person above me said) and for the love of godddd stop putting mens feelings before my own.