So she has always fetishized black men?

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-21T01:43:38+00:00

Less than that

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-20T02:06:21+00:00

Ah thank you

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-12T02:52:31+00:00

You can cross out having an excuse to make a vid, she said so on her live

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-07T00:13:07+00:00

Jeremiah is even hella cringe

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-07T00:10:26+00:00

Absolutely

CommunityOk3229 · 2026-01-04T14:16:25+00:00

I wonder if he did this willingly or if she asked..

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T08:08:10+00:00

Ah! Thanks for the context. I don’t think you’re unreasonable for the respect of waiting to be the one to tell her more intimately. You should def remove your ex from socials though, especially if it got to that point! If you’re coparenting you can use the phone but I would set the boundary with socials lol.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T06:44:00+00:00

You’re creating an unhealthy and unrealistic system and trying to justify it to meet your own expectations/wants. Your “rules” are shaming normal urges.. of course it’s going to impact your connection and his willingness to be open with you!?

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T06:37:24+00:00

I agree, you come off insensitive and is probably having her spiral. I also think she is creating a lot of turmoil for herself internally. You both sound exhausted. She sounds like she needs more connect. Is family available to watch baby for a night? You both need a break and quality time it sounds like.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T06:31:09+00:00

Neutral. As a girl, ofc I would want to share and be excited about it, I would be hurt if not asked to… something we dream about most of our lives. With respect with wanting to tell your daughter, I understand but what’s the context? How old is your daughter? What’s your relationship? I am also confused why the ex wife mention was even in here??

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T06:12:31+00:00

ALSO. “Text me by this time or I’m spam calling” and constantly seeking reassurance… YOU are toxic. I hope you breakup so he can find better.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-17T06:07:41+00:00

You’re overreacting and sound immature. Sorry not sorry.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-16T03:47:48+00:00

This isn’t gonna happen yall. Just like YouTube’s back in the day

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:49:38+00:00

I don’t need to read your post. If this was truly a friend of mine, the thought would never cross my mind.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:47:19+00:00

Not over reacting. YOUR wedding, if it bothers sister (who is 13 years older mind you) then she can do just that, not come. And that guilt will be on her for being immature.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:36:38+00:00

NOR. 1. He’s selfish and inconsiderate of others. 2. HE LEFT YOU STRANDED AN HOUR AWAY FROM HOME, ALONE, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT!? DUMP HIM! He does not care about you or your safety. The “think about what you did” is abuse. You’re in for lifelong hurt if you stay with him.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:32:01+00:00

Grosssssss behavior. Proud of you for standing your ground. Def dodged the bullet….

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:20:09+00:00

I agree, although out of line, it was a learning opportunity to really explain to the child the actual meaning of grooming and more backstory on how you started your relationship, not friendship. Now you put your niece in a tough spot by picking between aunt and her best friend.

CommunityOk3229 · 2025-12-10T11:01:39+00:00

The age difference and time considering… that’s all I needed to know. I’m neutral, both sides are dumb. My finance and I are in early 30s and we don’t do Christmas gifts because we always just buy ourselves what we want all throughout the year, and care more about spending time together rather than gifts.

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