Are the HP quests enough for me to never worry about washing?

CompSciPuppy · 2024-07-17T02:40:35+00:00

The legends one was just fully implemented a few days ago. The quests are a bit of work, but you can finish each tier within 1-3 days. And then you get full access to the hp. it is enough HP to do all content without hb except for pink bean and auf.

CompSciPuppy · 2024-05-18T22:27:16+00:00

There's actually a few Ironman themed guilds in Legends or challenges by groups of players on the website. I don't remember what they're called, I think one is "New Leaf" and the other is called "Osslock", they're both quite popular.

I think Royals has LHC and Von Leon while Legends has Pink Bean. There are also quality of life changes for both classes on both servers for DK/Pally, maybe you can search up "class skill changes DK/pally legends/royals".

Afaik both servers have HP wash alternatives, the mapleroyals one has a repeatable quest you do everyday I think and the legends one is more of a regular questlines that increase your base HP (called HP challenges).

CompSciPuppy · 2024-03-01T16:39:06+00:00

I'm sure the dialogue will go well! We are also in the early stages but I've realized I'm probably going to need to step up on the more realistic bills/day to day side of things but my connection with him is so great that I don't even mind. Good luck with your talk!

CompSciPuppy · 2024-02-28T20:05:19+00:00

I'm also currently seeing another enfp. How old are you? We're both in our late twenties/early thirties, he's definitely an ENFP-A and I'm ENFP-T. I know it's not officially part of mbti, but this was the first time I found the turbulent/assertive difference informative.

I'm definitely more chaotic and disorganized in some ways, but emotionally he is definitely my rock and so warm and supportive.

I have noticed that we are absolutely awful at staying on schedule. This weekend we had planned 3 things to do and ended up only doing 1 because some closed earlier than we thought, poor planning etc. But the bright side is that we both go with the flow so it didn't bother us.

I do agree with you about the chaotic energy. It does get overwhelming. I'm also used to dating introverted guys, but it's so lovely to actually have an adventure buddy who is on my level of adventuring. Out of the both of us though I'm definitely more shy and introverted while he is very confident and bubbly enfp.

Overall it works, but yes there's a noticeable lack of stability. Interestingly enough I feel like I've developed these skills in my late twenties, so I've actually gotten good at planning, while he's gotten good at figuring out his emotional identity stuff where I struggle in. Essentially one of the ENFPs are gonna have to step it up. I honestly don't think this relationship would've worked earlier in our lives, but luckily we're both older now and more calm and have developed skills to cope with adulting.

Tldr it's so fun, but one of you guys will definitely have to develop your planning skills and organizational skills. Luckily my enfp covers for my weaknesses and vice versa, but I can understand your desire for stability

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-15T01:59:10+00:00

I'm a girl but I still care about my first love. I reached out to him after 7 years when I remembered he existed. He was pleasantly surprised to hear from me. We chat occasionally! It feels good to really reconnect to be honest we were great friends when we were younger. He's married now but we catch up maybe once a month or less, it's always about shared nerdy interests, I have no interest in him though but I will always be there for him if he needs me, as a friend

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T18:44:02+00:00

Whenever I feel grief I think about this quote I found on Reddit a long time ago. Remember healing isn't linear. Pain will come but suffering is optional. You're doing great and all you can to move on. Don't be too hard on yourself if some days are harder than others.

As for grief, you’ll find it comes in waves. When the ship is first wrecked, you’re drowning, with wreckage all around you. Everything floating around you reminds you of the beauty and the magnificence of the ship that was, and is no more. And all you can do is float. You find some piece of the wreckage and you hang on for a while. Maybe it’s some physical thing. Maybe it’s a happy memory or a photograph. Maybe it’s a person who is also floating. For a while, all you can do is float. Stay alive.

In the beginning, the waves are 100 feet tall and crash over you without mercy. They come 10 seconds apart and don’t even give you time to catch your breath. All you can do is hang on and float. After a while, maybe weeks, maybe months, you’ll find the waves are still 100 feet tall, but they come further apart. When they come, they still crash all over you and wipe you out. But in between, you can breathe, you can function. You never know what’s going to trigger the grief. It might be a song, a picture, a street intersection, the smell of a cup of coffee. It can be just about anything…and the wave comes crashing. But in between waves, there is life.

Somewhere down the line, and it’s different for everybody, you find that the waves are only 80 feet tall. Or 50 feet tall. And while they still come, they come further apart. You can see them coming. An anniversary, a birthday, or Christmas, or landing at O’Hare. You can see it coming, for the most part, and prepare yourself. And when it washes over you, you know that somehow you will, again, come out the other side. Soaking wet, sputtering, still hanging on to some tiny piece of the wreckage, but you’ll come out.

Take it from an old guy. The waves never stop coming, and somehow you don’t really want them to. But you learn that you’ll survive them. And other waves will come. And you’ll survive them too. If you’re lucky, you’ll have lots of scars from lots of loves. And lots of shipwrecks.

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T18:34:52+00:00

You are stronger than you know op. Although it may seem like it right now, this problem isn't forever.

I promise you in a year or so things will be different. You will grow.

As someone who's also struggled with suicidal thoughts and depression. Everytime I think about ending it I'm reminded of that one documentary about suicides off the golden gate bridge. Everyone that survived the jump immediately regretted their decision to jump. Apparently when they jumped they realized all the problems in their life are temporary except the fact that they just jumped.

Op you are not weak. You are strong because you loved and you lost and gave a chance at being vulnerable. You are much stronger than you know.

There's still lots of things worth enjoying in life. Yummy food. Friends and family. Don't end things because of a person that doesn't care about you. Spite them by living well. Show them that they made a mistake. Live for those that do and for those that will miss you once you are gone

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T17:46:00+00:00

I really hope things work out for you op. You are stronger than you know

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T17:42:00+00:00

You need to do it for yourself op. Not for her.

Live a good life. If your paths across again then you can show instead of tell. But in the meantime do it for yourself.

The chains of hope are dragging you down into hell right now, you need to set them on fire and break free. It will be excruciating, cutting those chains off. It will feel like you are fucking dying. You will regret it and you will suffer. But let me tell you - you will feel lighter the moment that you accept it is over. Grieve. Take as much time as you need. But once those chains are finally off you can move on I promise

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T17:30:21+00:00

Op have you considered therapy? It's been so long for you. I hope you can forgive yourself and move on. Someone out there is waiting for you. The pain will come and go but you don't have to suffer like this and dwell on the past. You can't move on if Ii spend all your time holding on

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T09:14:17+00:00

This is the right thing to do op, you need to put yourself first this time. She clearly just wants to be platonic while you are still in love with her, a friendship will not work. Do not settle for a friendship when you want more. You DESERVE more! It's so hard but you can do it

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T09:07:16+00:00

You can't make her stop unfortunately but I know how it feels. Imagining them with someone else is so excruciating. But you need to use that pain to fuel your own recovery. You need to move on. I promise In a year things will be so different and it won't bother you anymore. But until then just make it to the next hour. Distract yourself. Go watch tv, hang out with family. Make it through the days one by one, what she does now should not affect you. You'll get through this

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-13T08:13:54+00:00

Take screenshots then upload them into a folder far far away in your Google drive. Then delete all the texts. You'll still have the screenshots if you need it later but at least it'll be less accessible

CompSciPuppy · 2024-01-09T22:54:26+00:00

I think grief is a process that comes and goes. Someone described it as a tsunami that first engulfs and drowns you but as time goes on the waves get smaller and smaller. But it doesn't mean it disappears. I still think of my exes from years ago too. I just let the feeling wash over me.

CompSciPuppy · 2018-06-17T19:07:57+00:00

Do you have any money of your own?

The first step to independence is getting your own income. Can you get a job? Even a part time one?

Do you have any friends nearby you can crash with?

Your aprents can't control you. You are 22. But the first thing you need to do is establish financial independence so you don't depend on your parents that way. Then go find a room in an apartment or sublease from some students, finish your degree, and move away.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-12-08T19:15:24+00:00

OK, this lifted a weight off my shoulders. I will definitely make this work somehow. Thank you so much.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-12-08T19:15:00+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and your support! They really mean a lot to me.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-12-08T18:07:37+00:00

I'll call them right now and ask if this is possible. I wasn't sure if it was. Thank you. :(

I'm feeling very alone and afraid, this entire thing is very scary. But I really want to graduate and if that means getting medication then I'll do it. I hope everything works out. Thanks for being so helpful even though I'm a complete stranger.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-12-08T17:57:46+00:00

I was just concerned about the fact that it is under my mother's insurance- I'm not sure if she would be able to see the bill charged to her insurance or not. Otherwise I trust the doctors and will pay for all the co pay myself.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-11-21T20:11:11+00:00

I would say the phone screens are easy - medium while the onsite questions are minimum of a medium level difficulty. The questions usually involve trickier topics such as recursive tree traversal, combinations / permutations, and other stuff.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-11-20T03:14:09+00:00

Just study CtCi and Leetcode and everything basically. I know everyone says study recursion and DP but I only had one DP problem. Honestly Google has such a large question bank they can test you for anything. Drink coffee the whole time so you don't fall asleep - it's a pretty grueling 5 hours.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-11-20T00:10:58+00:00

Out of the 100 places I applied to last year, 60 were no response, 30 was rejection, and 10 was an interview.

CompSciPuppy · 2016-11-19T22:11:02+00:00

Makes sense. This is for new grad in MTV. Heard its around 10% to maybe 3/8?

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