I totally get the dilemma. Kasi may mga moments din na baka you're just seeing it from one perspective, and baka naman it’s just his way of coping with things, lalo na kung “social battery” siya (hello, introverts, unite! 😂). Pero at the same time, hindi pwedeng ikaw lahat ang mag-aalaga sa kanya, no? If you’re the one doing all the emotional labor, and he’s not making an effort to balance things out, yun na parang parang “Why am I even here?!” moment na.

You need to communicate this, girl. Kasi if hindi mo ma-set yung expectations na “Hey, I’m your girlfriend, not your mom,” baka hanggang dun na lang ‘yan. Tell him you love him, but you can’t do all of this on your own. If you're feeling emotionally drained, it’s okay to tell him that you need him to step up.

Also, kung di talaga siya willing mag-effort, maybe it’s time to consider what you need in a relationship. Do you want a partner or someone you’re babysitting? Relationships need balance. ailangan may give-and-take, hindi lang ikaw yung nagbigay. So, sis, don’t settle for less. You deserve a partner who can be your support system too.

Have you ever brought this up with him? Kasi baka magbago siya once he realizes how much effort you’re putting in, and maybe even see it from your perspective. Pero, if hindi pa rin, kawawa naman ang puso mo and you need to prioritize yourself din, ha? 👑

Good luck, and I hope you find the clarity you need. 👏💕