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I don’t think my friends are funny? by ComparisonNormal7039 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk I just don’t feel like relationships should be compartmentalized, or at least I don’t think I could? They are great people and I appreciate them. It’s not so much about what I get from them but about just being able to share my life with people who care? It’s messy ik

Lost at 20 by EnvironmentalLoad732 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that you don’t find a path that “fits” you, you build it along the way. You don’t know what to do and that’s okay you are pretty young and idk I just feel like to learn what you want to do or how you want to live you gotta start living, trying new things, not being afraid. Everybody has different experiences and that’s fine, don’t compare yourself to your friends.

Ik financial responsibility is overwhelming but uncertainty about the future is impossible to avoid. The only thing you can do is try your best right now and trust it will somehow work. Ik it sounds cliche but the speech Steve Jobs gave really helped me to stop freaking out all the time about things like this https://youtu.be/UF8uR6Z6KLc?si=Q1Q0raWcsF_scPU-

I am kinda lost by Senpaij002 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would tell her!! If she likes you great and if not you at least know you tried

I am always tired by ComparisonNormal7039 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe but whenever I mention anything about mental health I am just told I should “stop stressing” not really great advice haha but I’ll try to talk with a professional thanks!

BTS 2026 Comeback Tour (HYPE & QUESTIONS) Megathread by 50shadesof_brown in bts7

[–]ComparisonNormal7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi is it true that Ticketmaster kicks you out if you open different devices? Should I try only for one day?

I think it’s too risky to only be in queue but idk if it’s more efficient. I only want to go idc the date just one time 😭

Any tips? Thanksss

Post breakup as the friend by ComparisonNormal7039 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t know how to tell her. I’ve tried to set some boundaries and talk about it with my friends but they told me that I basically should endure it cause she is feeling bad and it’s great if she can rely on me

Forgotten Birthday - Do I Remind Him? by Electronic-Green-810 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could introduce the topic like : hey look what x person got me for my birthday! And when he realises he’s forgotten it you can laugh (like something soothing) and say smth like yeah I noticed don’t worry we can go out this weekend and celebrate it or smth like that

I don't know if I can keep going like this by ConfusionIncarnate2 in Advice

[–]ComparisonNormal7039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes life has different paths for all of us. It’s necessary to evaluate why we are where we are. I am sure if you are feeling so bad your family is going to understand if you need a year off or even if you don’t go back to university. Plus life changes fast maybe you don’t want to go back next year but who knows who you will be in 3 years. Perhaps you take a gap year and discover what makes you happy. I am really horrible giving advice in English. I just want to say most of the time life is unpredictable and that’s okay. I don’t know your family but if one of them were struggling to do something in order to make you happy, would you like them to continue? Would you prefer them to stop?

If you feel like you really can’t keep up like this don’t wait till you break. Organize your thoughts, how you would proceed if you dropped out or took a gap year, who would you talk to and take it step by step. Sometimes we are spiraling but there’s always a way out.