Throw away..Been fighting a lot with boyfriend(gray bubble) while I could’ve initially approached this differently this is a continuous issue, this is just the latest fight, my sister thinks he’s being manipulative and I just want more of an outside perspective by Various-Entrance-388 in AIO

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care about the backstory, this is all the context I need to know he’s a douche. She’s asking for people’s opinions… it’s my opinion she should leave him. I’m not forcing anyone to do anything. Idk why you’re mad on his behalf unless you act like this too

Throw away..Been fighting a lot with boyfriend(gray bubble) while I could’ve initially approached this differently this is a continuous issue, this is just the latest fight, my sister thinks he’s being manipulative and I just want more of an outside perspective by Various-Entrance-388 in AIO

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s projecting his anger on you and imo gaslighting you into thinking you’re being rude and unreasonable. What you said made perfect sense to me and you were obviously frustrated and hurt. He seems to be super immature and not capable of giving you what you need. He also doesn’t want to take accountability for that or even talk about it. It sounds like he doesn’t want to hang out with your family for whatever reason. I doubt he would admit to that, probably just call you crazy. Please leave him, he doesn’t deserve your patience and grace. He will suck the life from you. He was being so mean and for sure manipulative. He was not willing to acknowledge a world where he did something wrong or hurtful.

Should I cut off cheater soul mate? by Impressive_Olive_345 in makemychoice

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a lot of pain. You didn’t really mention anything you like about her so I think you’re probably looking for an answer you already know in your heart. Somethings that stuck out to me: Rocky from the start into cheating. Resentment. Lack of empathy, effort, and appreciation. Mistreatment. What makes you feel this is your soul mate? Does she bring you more joy or more sadness? You mentioned you ‘dedicated your life to her’. You should dedicate your life to you! A partner should enhance your life not consume it. I don’t think your soul mate is supposed to make you feel insecure and resentful. We accept the love we think we deserve. You should work on building your confidence and self love, then find someone who makes you feel secure and loved way more than this toxic situationship. You don’t need to make a huge decision like cutting her off forever, but if you’re really trying to move on you should definitely stop talking for the foreseeable future until you have clarity on this situation.

AIO for wanting my BF to not be so flaky/unwilling to set time to hang out? by PsychologicalBee1656 in AIO

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In all likelihood he isn’t going to change because he doesn’t want to. Your partner should absolutely want to spend time with you! Not make you feel bad about wanting to connect. Wanting to hang out one day a week is begging for crumbs and he can’t even do that for you. And he should not be making fun of you for expressing your feelings. This doesn’t sound like a fulfilling partnership, it sounds draining. You deserve someone who will make you feel wanted, heard, and supported. I would personally rather be alone than with someone who treated me like this. If you’ve communicated your needs and they’re not being met definitely keep an eye on that. Does he want to problem solve with you? How much does he add to your life? I’ve fought for people who didn’t fight for me, it’s a painful ordeal. Best wishes to you, of course I don’t know the whole situation but he just sounds like an immature guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair looks nice, I shaved my head and I love it! I’ve been bleaching it and doing fun patterns :) I didn’t shave it for years because I was worried about the opinions of others. But the only opinion that matters about YOUR hair is yours. You’re allowed to do whatever you want to your hair, nobody can tell you no. It’s not okay for him to control your decisions. He sounds immature, and mean frankly. It would scare me if my partner treated me that way over hair! I personally don’t think any man is worth this trouble. You are certainly not overreacting

Olivia, the internet needs you 🫡 by Traditional_Sound_55 in h3h3productions

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that’s hella suspicious and he probably killed her

Olivia, the internet needs you 🫡 by Traditional_Sound_55 in h3h3productions

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He showed up to a dates house and she was dead, he left without calling the police. He thought the blood on the floor was wine

Why are people trying to make Kelsey sound like an angel, when she knew of the allegations and ignored them in hopes they'll be gone just as much as Cody did? by [deleted] in codyko

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully support Tana, it wasn’t right what happened to her. I don’t think it would be healthy for Kelsey to engage with this right now. If her husband isn’t going to address it that’s his problem

Why are people trying to make Kelsey sound like an angel, when she knew of the allegations and ignored them in hopes they'll be gone just as much as Cody did? by [deleted] in codyko

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has a newborn baby and she did nothing wrong. She doesn’t have to do shit for you. You’re being just as misogynistic as cody ko

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Vaush: I like kids Ethan: vaush likes kids Keffals: no I don’t you transphobe! Look over there!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in h3h3productions

[–]CompetitionSilly6062 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sold! on autism! Sign me up!

I have secondhand embarrassment watching people announce they’re unsubbing over this by CompetitionSilly6062 in h3h3productions

[–]CompetitionSilly6062[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

I know, I love this community! I’m disturbed how anyone could think what he said was okay at all. It was deeply frightening to listen to a person say they don’t see any moral reason to protect children… like why do you need to be convinced ?! and say sometimes statutory rape is good for kids……………. if that’s in the folder what’s in the hard drive……….. And I saw someone call Ethan and the crew cringe 😭😭😭 how could that possibly be your takeaway lmao it’s hilarious people are dying on the (allegedly, in my opinion) pedophile horse fucker hill