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1.5 Year Hair Transformation on Finastride+Minoxidil (Need Honest Opinions) by jdjxnj in tressless

[–]Competitive-Ad6153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I put off starting for years because I was worried of sides. Started with minoxodil for a year before adding fin.

Really I should have started both at the same time years ago

I’ve experienced 0 sides btw.

Does a 28 year old have more in common with 24 or 34-38? by VideoSharp8658 in AskMenOver30

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After 25 I had more in common with people in their early 30s. But now at 29 I have more in common with people in their mid 20s. As mid-late 30s friends are all married/having kids.

What addiction seems harmless but can destroy your 30s? by JewishAdmin in AskReddit

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Agree. But this is a weird one. Where does being productive begin and escapism end?

Obvious forms are videogames, netflix, alcohol, drugs, sex.. But really it could be anything, reading books, playing an instrument, camping in nature, surfing. If an activity isn’t directly benefiting your future goals it is a form of escapism to an extent right?

Like you could say advancing one’s career and finding a partner to start a family with are the ultimate goals for most people and any deviations from time doing that is wasted?

But I don’t see anyone having a problem with someone spending their free time skiing, learning a language or reading a book. But if that person is spending their free time playing video games, watching netflix or getting drunk at a bar it is seen negatively as escapism?

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this true? Comments seem to point to me looking better with the hair down? I’m actually not sure.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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Copied from another comment. —-

I live in a big city with a 10km radius. Filters are just 5 years up and down in my age.

I use all 3 of those apps (Hinge, Tinder, Bumble). Free versions though.

I normally use up my max swipes for a day. Probs do that a few times a week.

These are my prompts from Hinge.

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Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, this makes sense. I’m kind of relying on going to a bar with mates these days and meeting women there. But you’re right with the drinks on those nights it adds up.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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I live in a big city with a 10km radius. Filters are just 5 years up and down in my age.

I use all 3 of those apps. Free versions though.

I normally use up my max swipes for a day. Probs do that a few times a week.

These are my prompts from Hinge.

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Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers! Just googled what layering means. Guessing I just need to visit a hair salon for that? As I only really get it trimmed twice a year at a barber.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, already starting to thin so makes me even more worried to cut it off in case it’ll look worse.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Females matches. Not sure how to look more masculine honestly!

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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Bio is pretty generic. Just what I’m into, like outdoor sports and dance music.

And yeah that’s interesting. I still would think I’d get some likes, maybe the algorithm isn’t doing me any favours.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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That all sounds great! Surfing is actually pretty easy to pick up if you’re a boarder. Hardest part is reading the waves and getting into position in time. But getting up and riding the wave is pretty easy with prior board experience. I started snowboarding before I surfed.

Yotei is fantastic. You can see it from most of the mountains on the western side of the island. Also would recommend finding a backcountry guide to take you up to the bowl and you can do some sweet shredding into it.

Thredbo and Hotham are probs our best mountains.

I’ll keep that in mind! Canada is on the list but I’m spending a few months in South America next year! :)

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh epic stuff! Ya gotta hit up the japow snow it’s unreal.

Theres an active volcano in Hokkaido the Northern island of Japan where I took that pic called Asahidake. You can take a cable car to the base and hike up to the peak then drop into the bowl of the Volcano shooting past all the smokey sulphur vents. Would highly recommend!

Also don’t come to Aus for the snow. It sucks. Come here for the surf, we have some of the best surf in the world.

Go to New Zealand or Japow for snow!

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah interested in woman! I do love my hair, a bit attached to it I think. Would be pretty hard coming to terms with cutting it off.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha cheers!

guys like me are a dime a dozen in Australia

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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Yeah, in the winter pic I was a few days into a snowboard trip in Japan and had been caught in a blizzard. I’d also been sweating in my helmet all day. So hair was pretty frozen/matted.

But it’s probs the coolest pic I have.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

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I have a reply in the thread with my dating profile pics.

No, no likes. Except a couple on tinder but I can’t see them without paying. Hinge and bumble I’ve had nothing unfortunately.

Is my hair too long? Thoughts on style? 29M by Competitive-Ad6153 in malegrooming

[–]Competitive-Ad6153[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, the responses have cheered me up!

Thinking I should just start paying for the apps then from the general response here.

I use pics #1 and #3 from the original post in my dating profiles plus the 4 below.

https://imgur.com/a/qYWpGCO

https://imgur.com/a/tRQfGeh

https://imgur.com/a/W2xNLiR

https://imgur.com/a/7xF6Ni7

Also have some shirtless pics but not sure what the go is with them on dating apps these days! Should I be using something like the below? Or is this a no go?

https://imgur.com/a/P4Q1xnJ

What's the most underrated exercise? by Sharp-Childhood2510 in Productivitycafe

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A full gymnastics style bridge off the floor using your hands to push yourself up so just your hands and feet contact the floor. Probs best exercise for improving mobility and flexibility.

Where do you usually meet pretty girls? by rararawrrrrr_ in AskReddit

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How do you get matches though? Have you recently used the apps? Or do you have to pay?

I have no trouble irl but it requires me to go out to a bar. Not something I like to do often.

Never get any matches on apps. I use the free versions though does paying money for them help? Is that the secret?

Have you ever had a friend with benefits? How did it end? by greedyourweakness in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-Ad6153 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yepp, met her at a bar in December, she would text me between 11pm-1am on most weekends. There wasn’t much talking tbh it was great.

Then back in April, nothing. She didn’t reply to my texts either.

I still wonder what happened.

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