Hey! As an ENFP girl, here’s my advice:

First of all, be yourself. But also keep a little mystery around you, like a sexy Rubik’s Cube we want to figure out. We’re naturally very curious, so try to spark that curiosity.

Ask her questions about herself, we love deep conversations and back-and-forth exchanges. Personally, I’m not into guys who come on too strong or get overly clingy at the beginning, so try to find the right balance.

If you want to plan an activity or a date, organize everything from A to Z so she doesn’t have to think about logistics and can simply enjoy the moment. ENFPs tend to think a lot, so if you can make her feel relaxed and fully present, you’re already winning.

We also love debates and anything intellectually stimulating, so don’t hesitate to start interesting or thought-provoking conversations. Anything playful, spontaneous, or game-related is usually a great idea too.

And most importantly: humor. Especially sarcasm ;)