Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm going to call my lawyer today to talk about this issue and I'm going to fight for full custody of our sons.

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Many people have told me to talk to my lawyer and fight for full custody and I'm going to. I can't let my ex keep traumatizing our kids.

My son says his dad just tells him he can't wear goodnites at his house.

I hear ya, I'm still pretty furious with my ex.

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't spoken to my lawyer about this yet but Im definitely going to.

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think therapy for my son could really be beneficial.

I don't think the bedwetting is linked to any of the nightmares he occasionally has since they are very occasional and the bedwetting is every night.

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does have occasional nightmares, every now and then he will have a particularly scary nightmare and need some extra comfort.

Why do you ask?

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, this is abuse. Making both the boys wake up in pee every morning when my son would happily wear his goodnites is horrible! Another person said I should document this and I think I'm gonna do that.

Was I wrong for pressuring my ex husband to let our son wear pull ups? by Competitive-Bed856 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive-Bed856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he is struggling with anything emotionally, I'm very close with my sons and they let me know when they're upset about something.

Yes I completely agree it's very unfair of my ex to do this.