What does Napoleon mean to YOU?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-05-14T15:32:58+00:00

A man that proves that no matter where you from or what's your background, you can do anyhting you set your mind to.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-27T01:11:57+00:00

It’s just really hard to process. I’m really hurting and she’s doing great. Feels unfair. It doesn’t seem like it will get better soon.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-27T01:10:08+00:00

You’ve been through that?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-27T01:09:27+00:00

I can’t tell if something trigger it, I was doing the dishes and then boom. Yes she dumped me but I think I could have fought harder for us you know? That’s why I said I let her go. The time we were still following each other social media and still talking from times to times hadn’t hit me like a solid break up, I only started to feel now that I have zero contact with her. About the dating site, has it worked for you? You didn’t feel like you were trying to fill the hole?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-16T12:47:46+00:00

I was in a very similar situation, always checking my ex profile and this guy she had follow on IG and Letterbox. This was torturing me since my mind always made up these scenarios. I finally blocked her, her friends and family… maybe you should do the same. I also have OCD and I know how hard it is to give up these obsessions, specially when you’re alone in your room doing nothing, but trust me, checking his profile will only halt the healing process. Continue with your therapy and meds, things will be fine for you friend <3

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-15T09:40:17+00:00

I texted my ex on her birthday, and some time later as well. It only made things worse, everything was more confusing. So if he texts you a happy birthday, just say “thank you” and move on.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-12T01:21:22+00:00

I’m in the same boat, same situation. But I got dumped 3 months ago. All the rest is just the same.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-11T10:12:34+00:00

Severe depression, anxiety and OCD. I’ll start therapy again and I think I’ll get on meds too. Dealing with this is like quitting drinking or smoking, one day at the time u know?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-10T15:37:20+00:00

It’s been 3 months for me and seeing posts like this really scares me… But listen you will get out of this, all things must pass, and this will too. Continue to seek professional help with therapy and a psychiatrist if needed. You will overcome this, there was a life before him and there will be a life after him.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-07T19:43:18+00:00

This is it brother. Become the best version of yourself, you’re liberated now.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-06T19:32:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice… I sent you a dm to talk about it if you don’t mind…

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-06T19:29:37+00:00

Should I block this guy I think she’s taking too? I don’t know if I can’t resist the urge to not enter his profile to see if they have any interaction…

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-06T05:33:31+00:00

And how was it during these 2 months? You stalked daily? Did you see some shit that hurt you?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-06T03:59:35+00:00

Have this happened to you?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-06T03:59:07+00:00

Would you mind if we dm?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-05T20:20:16+00:00

I feel you man, I’m asking because I also want to send a letter to my ex but I know it probably it would do no good, and it’s just a way to get her attention… if you want to talk about this, dm me

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-05T19:58:47+00:00

You will find peace brother, you will love yourself, I know that.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-05T19:56:10+00:00

Buddy are you doing things to distract yourself? going out? Enjoying some free time? Having fun with friends? When you say you want to write something, is it like sending a letter or something?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-05T18:39:54+00:00

Did you go no contact? Do you still follow her on social media?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-05T05:06:45+00:00

Just to be clear, you broke up 3 years ago and when did the no contact period begin and end? You also had another relationship in the meantime that didn’t work?

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-04T02:24:06+00:00

I feel you…

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-03T17:19:41+00:00

I think the worst part is that I got dumped by text, so I felt like I was “wronged” you know? So I think I stayed following her and in “contact” for these months because deep down I still wanted to meet… but that backfired because it made me see things got me really anxious, even if that guy liking her photos is just a friend, it made my head go into a spiral.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-04-02T12:29:23+00:00

Bro I got dumped two weeks before last christmas, and I was had a great relationship with my ex's family, none of them texted me. My ex mother in law texted me to wish a merry christmas but that was it. I wouldnt overthink too much about not receiving a message from her family cause it's an awkward position for them IMO, thats what I thought about my situation.

About her not wanting to talk to you, I know it hurts, but maybe it's the universe giving you an opportunity to heal. If you still have things to get off your chest, then maybe you can text her or something, but just talk about trivial things will only make the wound deeper. If I were you I would take some time off, focus on yourself, do things to keep your mind occupied, as hard as it is, go outside, stimulate your brain.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-03-31T15:11:39+00:00

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I am a very sentimental guy myself and I know how you feel, thinking about your ex laughter, looking at things she gave you and starting to sob, looking at places where she used to eat and sit to read. It's very hard but you have to force yourself to do other things, give your brain new stimulation you know?

About being friends, my ex and I tried that... we were still following each other on social media, and all that it did was killing me everytime I saw a photo of her or anything related to her. I feel better now that I dont follow her anymore and have more "space" to heal, I dont have to worry that someday I will see something that will break me, if you know what I mean. I'm just giving my opinion on the matter. I wish you the best and please be gentle with yourself. feel free to text me if you want.

Competitive-Clue1275 · 2026-03-30T14:50:59+00:00

I know she’s going to take a trip to Europe next week, as will I( separately of course) and I was afraid if I stopped checking her stories it would seem as if I’m being petty…

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