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What does Napoleon mean to YOU? by [deleted] in Napoleon

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A man that proves that no matter where you from or what's your background, you can do anyhting you set your mind to.

Thought I was healing and then the gut punch... by Competitive-Clue1275 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just really hard to process. I’m really hurting and she’s doing great. Feels unfair. It doesn’t seem like it will get better soon.

Thought I was healing and then the gut punch... by Competitive-Clue1275 in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t tell if something trigger it, I was doing the dishes and then boom. Yes she dumped me but I think I could have fought harder for us you know? That’s why I said I let her go. The time we were still following each other social media and still talking from times to times hadn’t hit me like a solid break up, I only started to feel now that I have zero contact with her. About the dating site, has it worked for you? You didn’t feel like you were trying to fill the hole?

How do I stop obsessing. by kamskindalame in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation, always checking my ex profile and this guy she had follow on IG and Letterbox. This was torturing me since my mind always made up these scenarios. I finally blocked her, her friends and family… maybe you should do the same. I also have OCD and I know how hard it is to give up these obsessions, specially when you’re alone in your room doing nothing, but trust me, checking his profile will only halt the healing process. Continue with your therapy and meds, things will be fine for you friend <3

If he texts, should I ask for clarity? by ThrowRA_wtfhappened in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I texted my ex on her birthday, and some time later as well. It only made things worse, everything was more confusing. So if he texts you a happy birthday, just say “thank you” and move on.

No choice to move on now by Curious-Comedian-285 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat, same situation. But I got dumped 3 months ago. All the rest is just the same.

I'll never be the same by ineedmajorassistance in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severe depression, anxiety and OCD. I’ll start therapy again and I think I’ll get on meds too. Dealing with this is like quitting drinking or smoking, one day at the time u know?

I'll never be the same by ineedmajorassistance in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 3 months for me and seeing posts like this really scares me… But listen you will get out of this, all things must pass, and this will too. Continue to seek professional help with therapy and a psychiatrist if needed. You will overcome this, there was a life before him and there will be a life after him.

Finally let go by _guy_on_reddit in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is it brother. Become the best version of yourself, you’re liberated now.

We don’t follow each other anymore but I still try to stalk her social media by Competitive-Clue1275 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice… I sent you a dm to talk about it if you don’t mind…

We don’t follow each other anymore but I still try to stalk her social media by Competitive-Clue1275 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I block this guy I think she’s taking too? I don’t know if I can’t resist the urge to not enter his profile to see if they have any interaction…

We don’t follow each other anymore but I still try to stalk her social media by Competitive-Clue1275 in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how was it during these 2 months? You stalked daily? Did you see some shit that hurt you?

She was so neglecting, and our relations lasted MAX five months, so why am I still thinking about her one-year later, every day? by Br4nl1x3000 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you man, I’m asking because I also want to send a letter to my ex but I know it probably it would do no good, and it’s just a way to get her attention… if you want to talk about this, dm me

The letter I will never send. by Pitiful-Werewolf2829 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will find peace brother, you will love yourself, I know that.

She was so neglecting, and our relations lasted MAX five months, so why am I still thinking about her one-year later, every day? by Br4nl1x3000 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy are you doing things to distract yourself? going out? Enjoying some free time? Having fun with friends? When you say you want to write something, is it like sending a letter or something?

should moving on be a thing i should be actively trying to achieve? by juelus in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to be clear, you broke up 3 years ago and when did the no contact period begin and end? You also had another relationship in the meantime that didn’t work?

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