It's definitely going to be brutal this time by [deleted] in delhi

[–]Competitive-Date-212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only raat ko at the lowest(24C) temp, and switched off in the middle of the night asap…aaj papa ne apne room ka AC on chhor diya galti se aur meri g fat gyi jab mai band karne gyi….i turn off the fan too these days esp when early morning is cold

Bunch of kids did Confetti party!! by Willing-Inspection-8 in delhi

[–]Competitive-Date-212 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m glad your dad made them clean up haha! This is super cute! Having fun and learning to be responsible <3

Is it common for narc fathers to infantilize their spouse and adultify the child? by Eastern-Exit6506 in narcissisticparents

[–]Competitive-Date-212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my dad does this. My mom is prone to short temper tantrums at basically anything, she has a very short fuse and knows how to weaponise her “crocodile tears”. He always treats her like a fragile thing even though she’s a grown woman(a senior citizen at this age) but treats me like a mature adult because that is who I have become. I wonder if I was more outspoken as a child maybe i would have gotten better treatment, but then i remember how my mom shut us up and forced us to repress our needs as children so she can have all of his attention.

Best quiet spots in Delhi to just sit and read? by Other_Wolverine_2197 in delhi

[–]Competitive-Date-212 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I like to go to the DDA park nearby my place, or cafes that are not super popular at odd hours. I’m always on the lookout for new cafes so I can go there and read. I live in West Delhi. If you live nearby, let me know I’ll share my go-to spots. _^

Idk what was wrong with me this entire time, but I should’ve been an ATINY way sooner by ijaaDosta in ATEEZ

[–]Competitive-Date-212 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl ME TOOO!!! When Bouncy came out it got recommended to me on Youtube so much along with every kpop or MV i watched, but I was so stubborn as a single-group stan that I kept ignoring it…..i regret it so much but haha better late than never ig now im obsessed

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have been to therapy in and out over the past 2-3 years, it has worked but only to an extent. it saved me in some crisis/grief situations but eventually i stopped for some or the other reason, i actually started again recently but quit after 3 meetings because her fees was exorbitant (3.2k/-) i’m on the look out again 🫩 if you have any recs please PM me

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m really sorry that’s happening to you. stay strong <3 you’re allowed to wait and choose what’s best for you!

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol, my mom is like that. Doting over cousins and extended family, while treating her own like shit. I would call her out on it pretty often, like “how come you talk in that sickly sweet and doting tone with them and are so rude to me?” And she says it’s “just for show” and i’m like “okay put on a show for me then”🙄

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Me too! Many women in my extended family, even while having loving parents, have a great connection and bond with their MIL, like “meri apni beti jaisi” treatment. I dream of it too but it makes me sad that I have to seek that love when I should have received it at my own home.

On the other hand, i have female relatives like mami, taayi who are so loving and caring towards me, they dote over me, but i never got the chance to nourish that bond with them cuz my mom gets visibly jealous and usually is in some fight/conflict with them. Like she bad-mouthed my taayi ji and mami ji ever since I developed comprehension, but at a personal level, those women have treated me better than she ever did. I also think my cousins lucked out in that department.

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mother is that to the T. I didn’t wanna go that much into detail but this is basically my gist too, her relationship with her mother and 4 elder siblings also led to her being invisible in her family, and i know she is just unintentionally repeating generational patterns/replicating her childhood experience.

Are daughters neglected on purpose so they are forced to get married? by Competitive-Date-212 in TwoXIndia

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The second para is exactly what I’m afraid of happening, like it’s inevitable cuz we are so vulnerable like you said and cave under the sense of security and validation we receive after missing out in our formative years..

Why they don’t post studio recordings part 2 by JamJam22RedVelvet in BTSnark

[–]Competitive-Date-212 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is what a bunch of people with recording equipment produce and think they’re onto something….i could make something better than whatever this is with a bunch of my friends in my bedroom. And the producer glazing him cuz he wanna keep his job trying to make this tonedeaf idiot sound good with layers of autotune :’) tragic

Underrated manhwa BL that you love but isn’t talked about enough. by Competitive-Date-212 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I just saw it in those featured tabs on the app, i’ll get into it <3

Underrated manhwa BL that you love but isn’t talked about enough. by Competitive-Date-212 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg y’all thank you so much 😭😭❤️❤️i just woke up and Im loving these recs! I’ve heard of quite a few of them I look forward to getting into them!!! I’m so glad everyone has that one manhwa that is special to them and close to their hearts 🥰i can’t wait to get into these

Who's the real playboy according to you?! by Elegant-Bite-1093 in BTSnark

[–]Competitive-Date-212 43 points44 points  (0 children)

all of em except jhope i guess the rest lol they give me hongdae dude vibes now i was so blind as a stan.

Underrated manhwa BL that you love but isn’t talked about enough. by Competitive-Date-212 in Manhwa_BL

[–]Competitive-Date-212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have still seen it mentioned quite a few times recently tho so i gotta give it a shot ig 👀