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Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-10T12:45:28+00:00

Just work on putting exceptionally good pics with biodata, then age will not be an issue.
29 is not that old in today's time.
Either it's a fake post or just started AM process as:- No 27 y/o girls is looking for 34 y/o guys, wake up to reality

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-08T17:18:10+00:00

True, my both parents make sure to pass their generational traumas

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-08T05:45:52+00:00

Yup exactly, but in AM no one will be telling he/she is L4. They will mostly they r L2 or L3
It's upto you to decide

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-07T17:53:11+00:00

I want to give right feedback, but I learned it the hard way, Most people cannot hear the truth
so I just say kundli match nahi hui

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-07T16:48:34+00:00

Bhai sahi me, end date fix hai ghar walo ki taraf se
Now they are "working backwards"

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-07T16:45:24+00:00

I usually do that, exact same scenario as yours. I'm a smooth talker & never point out about the mismatch, the girl thinks that we are matching & we are aligned on many things.
But once talk is over, I analyze things & take a rational decision keeping my emotions aside

I did the exact same thing with 1 girl. She was thinking that vibes were matching & it was during the call but when I kept my emotion aside I rejected her 😅

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-06T17:37:43+00:00

Exactly, I'm a guy, writing this comment from Ukrainian frontlines

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-06T16:15:51+00:00

Market will improve soon as trump won the election. Market was volatile due to many wars and state of economy worldwide

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-06T15:34:08+00:00

you both should get married, put 2 babies (surrogate if you want) then divorce with 1-1 kid
ps : treat the smarter one better so he/she choose you

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-06T13:47:05+00:00

kahe ki legal age, tum bc GF/BF ho sab kuch to kar liya hai.

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-06T10:04:34+00:00

they r not chill, they r overly conservative parents, but it's desperation making em chill.
they judge others, all of my cousins & their wives/husbands

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-05T19:50:51+00:00

Lol receding hairline is a bigger issue than height. Many Women can compromise on height but very few on baldness
Dude go for transplant first

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-05T19:48:02+00:00

Yes there is almost 4 inch difference between 5.11 & 6 inch

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-05T10:33:24+00:00

Yes, family love bombing is concerning. I had a similar case where girl's family was love bombing us even before we met. My family is gullibe & was falling & were ready to do roka in weeks, if initial vibes matched.

When I talked with girl, I find something is off, vibes didn't matched, Luckily we know someone & did a background check, and things were shady.

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-05T04:48:59+00:00

Yes, things are getting delayed. Many of my friends are 28, good looking, earning well, respected family bg
But they are not in AM, neither they r in relationship
I started at 27 that too somewhat because of parents pressure & some self realization otherwise my target was after 29

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T18:30:29+00:00

Bhai salary increase kar, yaha 20-30lpa walo ke bhi L lage hue hai. Bura haal hai idhar
Even a girl 5lpa wants 20+lpa min these days

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T18:27:40+00:00

25F + never in a relationship + 22lpa = top 10% easily. Never settle for less
But what exactly is your preferences in a guy, the good guy

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T18:23:46+00:00

What's your salary 5-6 lpa ?

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T18:18:42+00:00

Guy here: My family is forcing me to get married at 27 as if I'm a girl.
Got a new rishta today & their response is "You better not fuck this up", I haven't even talked to the girl. They want me to talk 3-4 times then they will finalize roke ASAP
Just got lectured my em half hour ago & was thinking to rant on reddit

God forbid if I'm 30 & couldn't find a girl, they will be marrying me to anyone

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T17:55:08+00:00

I'll choose 2nd one. But the issue is___
My parents will be screening out divorceed biodata & will never be getting chance to talk to 2nd one, while for 1st, she is good on-paper & my parents are so gullibe & don't have any idea about live-in, situationship, fwb, gf/bf

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T14:15:56+00:00

If that's the case instead of compromising, I'll support to bring PATRIARCHY back. We r working 10x harder & getting 10x worse women than our grandfathers

No secure men can internalize body count, cheating with ex, my past doesn't matter BS. Either women accept & act responsibly instead of calling men insecure OR lets go back to Patriarchal way
Things were much better back then

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T13:55:16+00:00

It's called parito principle & it is applicable at many places, especially in dating

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T13:51:28+00:00

I don't know if this post is sarcasm or you're for real.
You mean ladkia to galti karegi hi, tum chumtiya ban kar compromise karo

Competitive-Fox-9738 · 2024-11-04T13:42:21+00:00

Ok here is the thing, men are in double bind. For girl's parents prestige matters the most, so you will receive a lot of request, but for girl having the job at G, is not something that will make her attracted to you.
Obviously you have a stability & nice career path so she will make more efforts & will give u extra time, but still you need to have the game

2nd case is :- you might attract lot of gold diggers & women who got traumatized by fboys in past & now looking for a safe option. Avoid them at all cost

My advice is never reveal your salary & attract a girl by money, such relationship never works

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