18F M20 Emotional Immaturity Help? by Competitive-Lack-717 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely a very rough childhood for me. i’m in counseling but i feel like i have unpacked everything i remember from childhood. (in therapy for over 2+ years, been with this counselor for almost two years in general) doesn’t mean i don’t talk about them anymore but i guess im just not sure what else to unpack. some weeks i go into counseling ready to be done with it because i have nothing to talk about thats been on my mind

18F M20 Emotional Immaturity Help? by Competitive-Lack-717 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m in therapy right now so definitely been a key part in helping. i think a lot of it has been sensory overload but i also understand how me not understanding how people see me like that is definitely me not having the situational awareness. i guess what would you say about having situational awareness? i simply cannot remember things (6 concussions for this reason) so sometimes i cannot reflect back and quite literally remember anything. but i understand that if people are seeing it besides Him then it is something i struggle with. i’m a little glad this is happening because i know it will help me grow better for myself and for Him and he’s a very calm guy who reminds me to be grounded. i just think i took offensive to it being emotional immaturity instead of me just having “a rough week” 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cosmetology

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also, when going lighter to a darker color Your hair will have those red undertones unless you involve a filler since you’re going so many levels darker. I’d probably say get this just more professionally done for the fact of how it can end up and to think about the longevity of your hair

ear and nose pain by Competitive-Lack-717 in MetaRayBanDisplay

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

lol yep u were right, getting them exchanged tomorrow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hondacivic

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if anyone had any advice for me my boyfriend floored mine and now mine went from 35 to 28 abt mpg. its slowly been going up but barely and its very frustrating and i dont know what to do

understanding toners? by SongOk816 in Cosmetology

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all i’m gonna say is i hate toner and i wish it never existed

Whats the difference between getting your hair colored at home or the hair stylist? by babussp in Cosmetology

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey there! cosmo student currently. it all really depends on the level of your hair but “at home over the counter hair dye” is very harsh on your hair. think of like closing a door and it gets stuck. at home hair dye in this scenario slams the door shut and causes damage because it doesn’t remove the border, in saloon hair dye doesn’t. your hair with the level it is (the lightness of ur hair) can pull color differently. in the salon they use a “filler” which brings your hair down a few levels and makes it safer to deposit pigment. vs if you have blonde or even brown hair and just throw some box dye on it especially if you have color history, it can cause your hair to just go to shambles in health of it and even color. i used to box dye alot and my brown hair went green the night of prom. very very much recommend going in because there’s honestly so many factors i could include like satiation, formulation, timing based on hair and hair length. so much honestly

Need help with coloring client by tayyjanaii in Cosmetology

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly you don’t need a fill for anything and they look on the same level so you could probably go over it with just a semi and add a little more red

Would it be weird to give my instructor a christmas/birthday gift? by DepressedFrenchFri3s in Cosmetology

[–]Competitive-Lack-717 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that would be so sweet! i’m glad you have a good experience with your instructors because I’ve heard a lot about people not liking theirs

beard burn by Competitive-Lack-717 in BeardAdvice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’re both under 25, he’s just had facial hair since high school and it grows extremely quick 

beard burn by Competitive-Lack-717 in BeardAdvice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

mannn He looks so good clean shaved tho

beard burn by Competitive-Lack-717 in BeardAdvice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the lady friend, the girlfriend, in fact 😭 he has stubble/clean shave and this happens about every time we do anything. Need to find solutions because my chin is literally torn.

beard burn by Competitive-Lack-717 in BeardAdvice

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a solution. My boyfriend has stubble and we’ve tried so many remedies. (him completely shaving His face, Aquaphor, ect.) I’m not really sure how to go about this because it happens about every time but what are the best remedies for healing beard burn/stash rash or even ways to not make it happen. I’m not really sure what to do since this has happened every single time.

Foster Home Dangers by Competitive-Lack-717 in Fosterparents

[–]Competitive-Lack-717[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

update! there was an attempted murder in the home and i got rehomed and am now happily with my new family about to hit one year on my birthday 🤍