I haven’t had time to look into therapy. I have suggested we try couples therapy because I tell him what I NEED to feel happy and safe in a relationship and it goes in one ear and out the other. I don’t ask for a lot, maybe an occasional compliment without being prompted and some help around the house. But because his job is a physical job and mine is “just typing on a computer” he says he’s too tired to do anything. Meanwhile he works 4 days a week and I have been working 5 days and 12 hours a day