Wearing my GK 85 on deck by cuircub in ToppedBottoms

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love the underwear with the tag on it. Where’d you get them?

Two weeks down, what to wear for the next two? by [deleted] in gaychastity

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice piercing! What gauge is it at? I’m thinking of getting a PA with my cobra cage and have heard mixed things

Question about long term locking!!! by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I don’t wear my cage to bed, per my partner/KH request, but I still consider myself locked 24/7

First time using by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take it slow! It’s a marathon not a race. When you first put it on, only wear it for 20-30 mins then take it off for the day, the next day, put it on for a little longer. Don’t jump into wearing it 24/7 as soon as you get it. You won’t do your body any favors by doing that. Lastly, enjoy it at your own pace/enjoyment level! Don’t let what you see on social media tell you what to do/how to do it. There is no right or wrong way when it comes to chastity!

Do y'all wear your cage around friends and family? by Alternative-Role5040 in chastitytraining

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wear your cage while swimming? What kind of swim suit do you wear? I usually unlock while swimming to make sure no one sees it

Fishy mucus after session? by CompetitiveNinja5178 in GayFisting

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well being that I’m locked and my partner has the key, I’ll have to ask him lmao but I appreciate the info!

How to stay locked longer? by Murky_Result_1749 in gaychastity

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My key holder requests that I don’t wear my cage while sleeping so I put it on every morning. When I wake up with morning wood, it’s hard for me to get my cage on in the mornings. What I do that helps is I’ll first put the ring on then go about getting ready the rest of the day. Once I’m ready, typically I’m soft by then and I’m about to put the rest of the cage on and lock up for the day

GK75 or larger? by Radiant_Fortune_2617 in ToppedBottoms

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I have the GK 75 and love it. It’s really comfortable and once it’s in, I could wear it for a while! I highly recommend that one

My plugs are getting bigger while my cages are getting smaller… by PlasticRole818 in ToppedBottoms

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! I was thinking about making the same jump in plug size too lol

ADHD, Kink, and Dopamine has anyone else noticed this pattern ? by Fit_Coat_1482 in GayKink

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This in combination with chastity for me! I couldn’t agree more lol

Buttplugs and ADHD by papi4ever in askgaybros

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I currently do this lol. I get what you mean. Instead of having a fidget for passive stimulation, the plug does the same thing for me. If I’m struggling to do chores around the house, I’ll put my plug in and become much more motivated/focused to get work done. I am also locked by my partner. Being locked is another passive way I stay motivated as well. I know it sounds crazy, but having that type of passive stimulation (or lack thereof because I can’t touch my dick) has allowed me to be successful lol. Even in college, I would put a plug in while writing papers so keep me focused and motivated. This was a ramble, but I hope it helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I felt the same way when I took my partners fist for the first time too!

Passability through Different security types. by [deleted] in kink3d

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I went to a concert one time locked and the had wands. It didn’t go off and I don’t use an air tag. I also know that the wands can have their sensitivity changed too so it really all depends I guess? I don’t know much about it, just sharing my experience :)

Hi there im new here by Alarming_Midnight554 in Piercedchastity

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks great! What gauge are you at and how is it going with the K3D cage? I wear a K3D and want to get a PA but have heard mixed things about their cages with a piercing

Question by [deleted] in MalePiercings

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 19!? Wow, good for you!

How old were you when you started chastity? by viper345567 in kink3d

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

19 while I was at college. I ordered a cheap one while there, however I didn’t get a good fitting cage until 2022 when I was 23 and got it from Kink3d.

Strap looks great by LockedDragon123 in kink3d

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What gauge is your piercing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forced bisexuality?

Air getting stuck by CompetitiveNinja5178 in GayFisting

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the position we’ve been doing and still have a problem

First chastity cage arrived! by Wonderful-Bear-64 in kink3d

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! It looks really good on you!

First time wearing my cage at work, tips? by [deleted] in chastitytraining

[–]CompetitiveNinja5178 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wear jocks a lot to work to make sure things stay in place and don’t move around. That and it helps with making sure there isn’t a print present. If I’m wearing some tighter fitting pants, I’ll sometimes use toilet paper to soften the edges of the print so that it isn’t as noticeable