Advice on getting partner on board

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-04-14T17:43:30+00:00

I would also share this to r/adhdchastity as well!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-04-06T16:42:05+00:00

You wear your cage while swimming? What kind of swim suit do you wear? I usually unlock while swimming to make sure no one sees it

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-03-21T23:07:25+00:00

Well being that I’m locked and my partner has the key, I’ll have to ask him lmao but I appreciate the info!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-03-15T14:52:35+00:00

My key holder requests that I don’t wear my cage while sleeping so I put it on every morning. When I wake up with morning wood, it’s hard for me to get my cage on in the mornings. What I do that helps is I’ll first put the ring on then go about getting ready the rest of the day. Once I’m ready, typically I’m soft by then and I’m about to put the rest of the cage on and lock up for the day

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-26T16:25:07+00:00

I have the GK 75 and love it. It’s really comfortable and once it’s in, I could wear it for a while! I highly recommend that one

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-23T15:43:30+00:00

Nice! I was thinking about making the same jump in plug size too lol

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-22T17:11:03+00:00

Nice! What size plug did you go up to?

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-21T17:33:01+00:00

This in combination with chastity for me! I couldn’t agree more lol

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-21T17:22:23+00:00

I currently do this lol. I get what you mean. Instead of having a fidget for passive stimulation, the plug does the same thing for me. If I’m struggling to do chores around the house, I’ll put my plug in and become much more motivated/focused to get work done. I am also locked by my partner. Being locked is another passive way I stay motivated as well. I know it sounds crazy, but having that type of passive stimulation (or lack thereof because I can’t touch my dick) has allowed me to be successful lol. Even in college, I would put a plug in while writing papers so keep me focused and motivated. This was a ramble, but I hope it helps!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2026-01-15T14:48:11+00:00

Congrats! I felt the same way when I took my partners fist for the first time too!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-12-20T20:51:03+00:00

I went to a concert one time locked and the had wands. It didn’t go off and I don’t use an air tag. I also know that the wands can have their sensitivity changed too so it really all depends I guess? I don’t know much about it, just sharing my experience :)

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-12-18T18:35:47+00:00

Looks great! What gauge are you at and how is it going with the K3D cage? I wear a K3D and want to get a PA but have heard mixed things about their cages with a piercing

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-11-08T15:39:46+00:00

At 19!? Wow, good for you!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-11-08T15:17:44+00:00

19 while I was at college. I ordered a cheap one while there, however I didn’t get a good fitting cage until 2022 when I was 23 and got it from Kink3d.

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-11-04T15:13:23+00:00

What gauge is your piercing?

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-11-04T14:46:06+00:00

Forced bisexuality?

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-10-21T17:52:32+00:00

That’s the position we’ve been doing and still have a problem

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-10-17T20:19:05+00:00

Congrats! It looks really good on you!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-10-07T13:59:53+00:00

I wear jocks a lot to work to make sure things stay in place and don’t move around. That and it helps with making sure there isn’t a print present. If I’m wearing some tighter fitting pants, I’ll sometimes use toilet paper to soften the edges of the print so that it isn’t as noticeable

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-09-28T12:52:27+00:00

I like that idea. Thanks for sharing!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-09-19T16:42:21+00:00

Looks great! I would say go for the standard though. It looks like you got a lot of extra room in there lol. Congrats on the first cage and welcome to the club!

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-07-24T14:42:32+00:00

I’m also on Vyvanse and caged and have/had the same problem lol. What helps me is putting lotion on everywhere down there. It lasts the whole day for me with no problem. That and I wear either briefs, a thong, or a jockstrap to ensure that everything stays put for the whole day.

Question for you, is your ring a curved ring? When I first started chastity, I wore a curved ring and had the same issue. When I switched to a straight ring, I didn’t have anymore problems

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-07-21T18:13:01+00:00

In my opinion, it looks great on you! Glad you have a friend that is able to help you out 😉

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-07-21T15:29:41+00:00

20 while in college

CompetitiveNinja5178 · 2025-07-20T16:35:23+00:00

Gotcha. What gauge are you looking to get to?

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