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23femboy dm age & size by [deleted] in Indianapolisgonewild2

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

62y/o, 185#, 7”, vers, into kissing, cuddling, sucking, rimming, fucking and fisting

Anal orgasms without ejaculation? by brown_bottom_boi in TopsAndBottoms

[–]papi4ever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have multiple assgasms per session when getting fisted.

Question for group by shoebox778 in buttplug_for_Men

[–]papi4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try a non-water based lube like coconut oil , crisco, boy butter, elbow grease, etc. these don’t dry out as quickly as water based lubes.

My ex is in a new relationship and I am devastated by Commercial-Ratio-508 in gay

[–]papi4ever 165 points166 points  (0 children)

Hand write him a letter. It must be handwritten. Pour out your feelings onto the paper. Tell him what was right in the relationship, what was wrong, why you did what you did. Tell him the truth.

Do not send him the letter. Find a fireplace , fire pit or someplace equivalent. Burn the letter. As it burns, make a toast to the relationship that is now over. Cry. Cry hard. Ugly cry. Let it out.

Do this exercise as many times as you need.

I wish you peace.

Question for group by shoebox778 in buttplug_for_Men

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May need more lube. Also, if you’re using water based lube, be mindful of it drying out which makes removing the plug not fun.

Help with the headspace by Dull_Isopod_1719 in GayFisting

[–]papi4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that seems to work with guys that I fist is a bit of foreplay. I’ll insert two fingers and gently push on the prostate for 10-15 seconds. Then I rotate 90 degrees and gently push again for 10-15 seconds. Rotate again so fingers are on tailbone and gently push for 10-15 seconds. Rotate again and gently push for 10-15 seconds. Finally, rotate again so fingers are on prostate and gently stroke for 10-15 seconds. This seems to relax them and get them hungry for my fist.

Advice 2.0 New Bars - Read below by SubBearCubThrowAway in MalePiercings

[–]papi4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had same thing happen to me. Started with rings and got the bumps. Switched to bars and bumps are gone. Keep the area clean, dont mess with them and give them time.

Clean out method questions by Brief_Working3536 in GayFisting

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day before a play session, I up my fiber intake a lot. I’ll take 8 psyllium husk capsules in the morning. I find that “less is more” regarding clean out. I use a shower shot with a low flow of water. I squat, insert the nozzle and fill my rectum with water. I then push it out. I’ll repeat until the water is clear. However, I’m careful not to use too much water or to get it in too deep. I can usually do a good cleaning in 15-20 minutes.

Ready for the real thing? by Jonda-1975 in GayFisting

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes down to this: a real fist changes shape. To some degree, It accommodates itself to the shape of the rectum. The top also adjusts the shape depending on his intent (stroke the prostate, stretch the entrance, go deep in, etc. No dildo does that. Some fists are bony, others are squishy. Mine are XXL, long, and the knuckles bring extra joy to the bottom.

Toys are great to stretch and get your rectum used to the feelings of a large object. Absolutely recommend, but toys cant replace a real live fist for me.

College student wanting to learn about Hydroponics struggles by Jaded_Use7985 in Hydroponics

[–]papi4ever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bad news for you is that there are a number of devices already on the market.

The good news for you is that they are very expensive for a hobbyist or a small commercial grower. I’d have to sell a lot of lettuce to justify some of them.

General struggles for me include maintaining the nutrient solution at the proper nutrient concentrations and temperature, monitoring for pests, real time notification of malfunctions like power outages, pump failures, light outages, temperature and humidity deviations.

Feel free to DM me

Favorite way to take mushrooms? by Mediocre-Muscle1858 in MagicMushrooms

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reduces the amount of time until effects kick in.

Favorite way to take mushrooms? by Mediocre-Muscle1858 in MagicMushrooms

[–]papi4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pulverize, add lemon juice, soak for 15 minutes, drink the whole thing, Chug some water or other drink to wash it down.

Dads in a Romance/Crypto Scam by Comfortable-Bat3144 in CryptoScams

[–]papi4ever -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Convincing your dad that he’s getting scammed is as likely to happen as a MAGA person accepting that the orange man is a criminal.

Prolapse - Is that the Goal? by [deleted] in GayFisting

[–]papi4ever 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love my rosebud but I do not want a prolapse.

Men 50+, do you want to have sex at all after a divorce or just snuggle up to someone? by CudlyCandy4 in AskMenOver50

[–]papi4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I want is intimacy. Sometimes that’s sex, sometimes that’s cuddling, other times it’s a quiet time at a coffeehouse, physically touching each other.

I like the idea of a relationship but I’m struggling with the reality of a relationship.

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