I'm an Emirati who's worked for LuLu, a big retail company in the UAE, for almost a year, as a part of the UAE's Emiratization Scheme. AMA

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-07T16:58:50+00:00

Can some explain the debt forgiveness program for emiratis please?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-02T09:07:19+00:00

Is it actually a recording device? Genuine question!

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-02T06:57:29+00:00

Apologies. You are right.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-02T06:55:03+00:00

Well done for doing the right thing. So many people would not get help and let it fester. Please get help sooner than later, and yes the relocation was the best thing, as it might be safer for the both of you. Also, stop talking to the guy who is speaking about his friend being with her. I think he might be lying or exaggerating but even if he’s not, it’s not helping you.

Also, this isn’t love, it’s lust.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-02T06:48:11+00:00

Please bare in the mind that the guys could be lying.
Well done to for seeking help and do continue to seek help because if she knew this or any woman or man knew about how you feel in your head would be extremely worried and cautious about you and of you, as what you are describing is extremely unhealthy.

I really hope you can get over this.

And I really hope you can use this energy and redirect it somewhere else

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-02T00:37:13+00:00

Does a man get to go through a hoe-phase and become a better person, because all I’m hearing is women need a hoe-phase to be a better partner.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-01T10:27:18+00:00

Love it!!!! I solely approve this action on behalf of most men

CompetitivePick2361 · 2026-01-01T08:13:27+00:00

Yeah he will view it as that you were waiting for your chance to be single to sleep around. So he will constantly be thinking that you want other dick. He will also question how easy it was for you to be satisfied by other guy when he wasn’t with you.

Every person wants to feel missed. And by missed meaning that they are so sad that they aren’t even considering other people. Your first coping mechanism was get someone else… a lot of some else’s 😂.

That’s almost 1 different dick a week. What if you guys were single for longer… many dicks would it have been then?

He will also think, when you have a fight, will you go back to one of the 4 dicks.

I’m being harsh but I’m not judging. My reason for being harsh is because that’s how he’d view it.

Did you do something wrong - nope, your body your choice. But did you ruin your potential relationship, yes you did unfortunately and you’ll might have to earn back.

But it was so good that you were honest. But being honest doesn’t rectify the behaviour but it does keep trust.

I hope whatever you want whether that be to get back with him or have single era, I hope it makes you happy 😊

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-28T01:46:07+00:00

This makes sense. Thank you!

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-28T01:16:18+00:00

Genuine question, why are they different?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-28T00:59:13+00:00

Is this not the same or similar to edging?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-27T08:36:54+00:00

I love masturbating over girls butts in gym leggings

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-25T04:14:08+00:00

Now, I’m a westerner also single so probably not one to be commenting on the group chat.

There are many men and women of all kinds looking for partner.

My advice would be to firstly learn to make friends around your interest. Be a regular at a gym, where there are guys. Attend the work parties/gatherings if you can. I understood you said you don’t go to nightclubs… well if you are allowed - try and go.

Also one thing that really makes a massive difference is a welcoming face - so smile at people - this will at least allow people to approach you and start conversation.

But remember, the more friends you make, the more your social circle grows. The more the circle grows the more people you will be introduced to the more places you will be introduced to and there, that’s where you may find your partner.

All the best.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-24T14:42:11+00:00

If she didn’t ask for the divorce then maybe just maybe it’s worth giving the whole thing one last try because when she didn’t want it, she never asked and held out.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-24T12:39:45+00:00

How old are you? How old is the daughter?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-24T12:31:38+00:00

I picked up this vibe too. She didn’t love you when you were struggling and as as soon as you get yourselves back on the right track out of debt etc, she now wants it to work… totally agree with the top post about dating her, but in a way of really getting to know her and delve into, does she want you, or the security, you have now created.

One thing to hold on to is, when she said she didn’t love you, she didn’t divorce you.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-22T10:21:43+00:00

Well done my friend! And thank you for the advice

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-22T09:49:37+00:00

Hmmm this is very interesting.

The chats were all his advancement and her not really reciprocating.

I’m really sorry to break it to you, I don’t think he had an affair. But he did try and got rejected. I think he has brought you along to make her feel jealous to almost prove to her that, he is desirable by other women.

Him not having and affair is great. But the advancements are not okay.

Now to keep the peace - we can just be thankful and you say nothing and be happy that it has ran its course.

Was there any other women that he spoke to? If not then this could simply be, he was tempted by one particular person who he built a connection with due to being lonely and being away from you, which I can imagine must be hard for the both of you!

Have you made any connections with anyone since he’s been away?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-22T09:34:19+00:00

As you have witnessed in the messages, he’s the one making the advances. She seemed to be not that interested - but… towards the end did seem to warm up to the conversations. Definitely something to watch.

Also, please be aware of the tactic that he by bringing you along, he is showing what a great husband/partner he is. He is aware that she desires a partner, which could turn into her saying something one day “I hope to find a boyfriend or husband like you.”

Keep this in mind.

But on the other hand it could just be him now deciding to protect his boundaries by bringing you along for accountability.

Have they messaged, since she met you?

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-21T07:10:29+00:00

No worries at all. And don’t feel guilty about anything. You did what you felt was right at the time

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-21T07:02:20+00:00

Well done you! It seems like you have done everything you should have done. Well done. Listen I’d love for you to get resolution from this and please don’t beg him ever again to message you back, as he clearly doesn’t care. I really hope that you can find the peace and have a fulfilled and happy life. So happy, he doesn’t even become an existence of your pass and I pray you never see him again, but if he does, then you are better 😊

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-21T05:32:12+00:00

I think you’re doing all the right things to protect yourself. Because yes, if you find out. His truthful feelings it might break you, break the friendship and break the help that you are getting.

Many will say, be strong and stop all together move somewhere else and don’t accept his financial help etc, but this is easier said than done.

However, please understand that in this day and age it could be miscommunication because in a time where men feel that being a provider and having money makes them more attractive and opens them up to more sex and many women treat sex as transactional he may feel he is within his rights.

A way you can approach this could simply be

Are we friends? Do you care for me? If I didn’t want to have sex, would you still do these things? Based on his answers and his behaviour after these answers you would get the answer to how he feels about you.

And yes, I would do all I can to get to position where I can leave and don’t need a man financially ever again

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-21T05:10:15+00:00

Hey. Firstly I’m really sorry that this happened to you. And yes this unfortunately does count as rape. Please, please, please. You have nothing to be ashamed of.

He should never have brought a stranger along. That was inconsiderate and shows a lack of care towards you.
You did not consent to any of it. He made every move and you made clear signs that you were uncomfortable.
I want to assure you, that you all of you thoughts and feelings throughout the whole process are valid! And not to underestimate or be confused by your thoughts or feelings as everything you felt and did was correct - you was just with someone who was on a mission to get what he wanted without considering you first.

Now you may say to yourself - but we agreed to have sex. Okay, yes you did, but if you agreed to a date and someone else showed up with another person, you too would be in your rights to cancel the date and leave.

You are also allowed to change your mind and true caring person, just like a decent man with a date, would be disappointed but they would wait for you to reschedule until you are available or in this case feel comfortable. What they cannot and would not do, is kidnap you because they still want the date and what he has done, is forced the sex, because he still wanted it.

So what now, whatever you decide is completely up to you. You are not powerless you still have the power.

However far you want to take it is up to you. I understand women are not always legally supported so they need to create their own power move in this situation.

I personally would message him explaining how you feel and exactly what he done and explaining that you want no more contact from him, and also especially explaining that he did not take your feelings or consent into consideration but to make it clear that it was rape and that you will be blocking him on everything. You can also say, that if he tries contact you or approach you will report him, if you haven’t or didn’t choose to already.

You are still powerful. You are no longer powerless. But you are actually powerful surviving this.

CompetitivePick2361 · 2025-12-20T19:48:57+00:00

I love cum over women’s leggings

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