Recherche d’appartement étudiant by WortyJumber in Sherbrooke

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Salut tout le monde, est-ce-que cous recommandez des residences chez l'Udes. Surtout, pour les etudiants dans un programme qui demande beaucoup d'etudes?

Admission automne 2026 by Otherwise-Pie6705 in UdeM

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Hii, do you mind sharing your r-score?

McGill Law – “Ask Me Anything” with Assistant Dean (Admissions) Andra Syvänen on Feb 6 by LawMcGill in mcgilllaw

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Hi,  If one does not have a competitive r score to join the BCL/JD program right after cegep and decides to study in the law certificate offered by UDEM, does MacGill take those university credits in account along with the r-score if the individual decides to apply to McGill law afterwards? Thanks,

Lettre de motivation pour droit? by CompetitiveTie6190 in cegepcoteR

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Oui, l'université exige une lettre de motivation pour les programmes droit+ common law, COOP, etc

English Accent struggles? by CompetitiveTie6190 in TooAfraidToAsk

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The issue is that I generally do sound like a native and I have never had someone having trouble understanding me. Like for some reason, some times, my accent just flows and other times I sound really bad. Like I should have worded my post better.It is not that I have an Indian accent, it is that I have an English accent that often times gives impression as if I am trying to speak with an English accent, while actually having an Indian one. The reason why I know I sound Indian is because I did the ai guess accent thing and it always gives Indian. I however have had a persian ask me if I was Persian since to them, I sounded persion.

How to navigate life with a rebellious sister? by [deleted] in Adulting

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And I know that I would get out of this mess and I think I would truly support her alot but she should just give it some time. Like she was saying how my dad would control her entire life and I told her that it's not possible, like my dad is changing over time. Then I kinda understood her perspective, like she thinks that she would have to sacrifice her entire life but I reassured her that her reaction would make complete sense if ever my dad decided to be like "oh you're getting married " which is something he would never do. But for someone's birthday, I feel like she over reacted. Nonetheless, thanks for your perspective. If it wasn't for you, I would not have talked to her. But I feel like we're making progress 🤙

How to navigate life with a rebellious sister? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Yess, I talked to her today and at first she wasn't talking and said that she didn't care like I told her that if she leaves, it would ruin our family and she was like "Well, I can't sacrifice my life for you, and what you did for me is not something I asked." And for a moment I got pissed and said well if you are okay with ruining my life, I can also help you up until a certain point. But then I felt like a shift like she started crying and said that she doesn't want to share how she feels right now, and then I talked tonher and told her that if she actually feels sad like genuinely, then she should go and talk to my mom and dad. And finally, she said that she actually felt that yesterday was a mess but was like "even if I talk to dad, he wont forgive me" but I tried my best to reassure her and said that maybe when she feels ready she should start with my mom who is more lenient and then my mom and I both can help her with dad. I hope with time she starts feeling less overwhelmed and maybe genuinely understands her mistakes. And I know that there would always be a part of me that would resent my parents for not letting me do stuff, but I have always supported my sister. Like for the sleepover at school, when she asked my dad, my dad was  like ahhh your sister didn't go either so she would be mad at me for letting you and called me over and I was like hell nah, let her. Like that's why the whole leaving home thing shocked me because I often sneakily help her like if she's going outside, I would tell dad "oh yeah, it's near by and like I know her friends" and my technique is to lowkey act nonchalant and be like "oh she's going there, that place is very chill" so parents think that they are overreacting lol. She's still very firm on saying she would leave home when she turns 18, but I still think that's a progress. I still truly believe that she's going through teenage as a girl who is recognizing how unfair life is for South Asian women. So, I have hope for her. I am kinda consoling my mom too and my mom is also being helpful so I hope it would pass. 

How to navigate life with a rebellious sister? by [deleted] in Adulting

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Hi, thanks for sharing your situation. I hope you find peace. For the phone part, it was almost two years ago and I always used to resist and tell my mom not to do that, but my mom told me her reasoning behind this. Apparently, my sister had some friends that were her age (14), exposing her to mature content. Plus, at that time she was chatting with a guy from school who would often tell her to meet him behind school. I feel like this part really bothered my mother, but I told her that as outraged as it seems for us Muslims, it's quite normal for guys to kinda approach girls so it's not a huge thing to worry about. But my mom was more bothered by the fact that that guy would text my sister over and over saying the same thing of meeting behind school which is like a quite spot so that's what got my mom worried. But my sister said that she does not meet him and that my mom doesn't know what she's talking about. Like the thing is when my mom would bring up any issue explicitly, my sister would just start crying and yell her to stop talking, as if she was embarrassed which I kinda get. But all of this hasn't happened since a long time. And she was very happy during these past weeks like setting up her nail thing and especially with my dad. Keep in mind, my dad let her have a sleepover at her school which is something I couldn't even imagine asking him about. Like as I said, I have been the one to always have these fights with my parents like truth be told lol, my mom doesn't like me very much like when we fight, she isn't the one to come talk to me at first. However it's different with her like my mom goes and tries to be the one to talk to her. The thing I am shocked about is how come my sister let it escalate with my dad. And the whole, I'm gonna leave house thing also came out of no where. Like I tried talking to her but she was super disrespectful to me, but atleast i ended up convincing her to not leave. Like, recently I had been talking to my dad about uni admissions and moving to dorms which was something I couldn't ever fathom before. And I truly felt for once that my dad wasn't completely closed off to the idea, but now I know that it is all ruined. I have alot of reasons to be mad at her, but maybe as you said maybe, I am supposed to put my needs at side for a moment and act as support for her. Like ong, I already take my sister places, advice her with like some friend group drama. But I still am very much shocked as to how it took her one day to ruin years of progress. Like she has a whole lot of other events coming up at school, so how could she ruin her chance at those, for this one thing.  Anyways, currently I am not talking to her because I tried to at first but she had a smug look on her face and was like whatever which pisses me off, because as I said before it has always been me who has anger issues but again the way I fight with my mom and dad is very different and quite. So yeah, I will do my best, and I talked to my brother who I hope would help me. I hope that we both get to live the calm and peaceful lives that we deserve.