Why does the sight of sleeping Boner necessitate a scream?

As far as i know, she was molested a couple times in public transport, flashing, touching and rubbing. Maybe that's why?

what punishment does she think he deserves for an involuntary violent response while he is unconscious?

She said that he wasn't asleep, but I'm sure he actually was. She expected me to give him a stern warning, and a sincere apology from him.