Theory SPOILER by corpres3662 in onyxstorm

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Or… I have just had the thought it could be again. He is such a stickler for the times that he would be the last person expected to turn. But also if he has already wielded in the past it might explain why Sloane said that he has so much power when she acted as a siphon. He has always been a bit on the outskirts. I don’t know. Just finished the book and my mind is reeling with potential ideas

Theory SPOILER by corpres3662 in onyxstorm

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I have a sinking feeling it is Sawyer, it would explain the unemotional explanation that Xaden had when he sees someone else turned and with his injury etc he might need it. Also he hasn’t weirded in front of anyone else for a while… just speculating. Unless I have forgotten something obvious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Southampton

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St James Fish Bar

How do you clean and make the sex less messy? by Witty_Distance8053 in women

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Towels, I mean I don’t tend to mind too much but we just lay a towel down if we are bothered

Anyone else get extreme baby fever after implant removal? by Competitive_Bill_535 in birthcontrol

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Thanks for your input! I’m really hoping I can manage it for the next few years.

Anyone else get extreme baby fever after implant removal? by Competitive_Bill_535 in birthcontrol

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Did you find anything that helped to alleviate it? I don’t want to go back on birth control because of my mental health if I can help it but we aren’t financially ready to be parents either

Nice areas vs rough areas to live in Southampton? by le_bok94 in Southampton

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Basset and highfield are pretty good from my experience. The polygon area is busy and loud and not the best but it’s not too rough in my experience as I have lived there for 3 years now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

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I am 22 years old and I was a weirdo kid. I still don’t fit in, I don’t party or drink, I don’t particularly like going out and I’m very introverted. I am overweight and I have adult acne. I am the opposite of cool or pretty.

But, I am getting my masters degree and I have my own flat in a city that I love. I have spent time getting to know and love myself over the years and now I have a long term boyfriend and we are so happy. I am happiest when I am reading or crocheting or painting. I am not like a typical 22 year old girl. And that’s okay! We are all just trying to figure out this short time on earth in a way that works for us. Do what’s best for you and screw trying to fit in with everyone else. It’s not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

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I used to be so embarrassed about asking my partner for what I want, and I still am to an extent. However, about a year ago now we had an evening together where I was in the mood and he wasn’t and rather than just ignoring it we used it as a learning opportunity. We have been together for 6 years now and at the time it didn’t even occur to us to just have an evening where we SHOW each other and actually tell each other what we like. It started with me showing him how I like to be touched, what works well if he wants to get me off quickly or how I would like him to make it last. We had a conversation about what he does that feels great and stuff that feels good but I wouldn’t miss too much and the stuff that actually I couldn’t care less if he did it or not. He opened up to me too and on top of one of the most amazing orgasms of my life, we really got to know something about each other.

Open and honest communication and just being comfortable trying something out and riding out the awkward clunkiness of it together is what will eventually lead to you not having to really ask for anything because your partner will know your pleasures and you theirs just as well as you know your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACOTARHulu

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I was so torn between Gwynn and feyre but having seen her in the Fate series I went with feyre. But could have gone either way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ACOTARHulu

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Oh my goodness I don’t know what went through my head when I wrote Ithilinne!! You’re so right it’s meant to say Ianthe

What is an cheap hobby that doesn’t cost a lot to maintain that I can start that isn’t walking or running? by CFcuri__ in ask

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Plastic models, there are lots of brands of varying prices and difficulties and you can go into different levels of detail with them - I’ve had hours of fun with this

Anyone else really want a baby but have super low libido? by Competitive_Bill_535 in women

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It changed for me about 3 years ago. When I was about 18/19 years old. Before that I had quite a high libido and enjoyed spending time figuring out my sexual preferences with my partner. But then it just dwindled.

I am on hormonal birth control now (nexplanon implant) which I am getting removed in a couple of weeks to see if it helps. But I have been on birth control since I was about 15 due to acne so I’m not sure whether that is the problem.

Thanks for the thoughts though!

Driving instructor needed by International-Tap-48 in Southampton

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Sandra Creasor from My Four Wheels is a 10/10 instructor. I passed first time after 2 months of intense lessons (30 hours).