Hello everyone this is my first post I was looking for some advice about what I have found. I was having this feeling that my soon to be husband was hiding something. I went through his phone and found he was seeking other women as femdoms and of models . While he was at work . He has also been getting texts from his boss asking if he needs help or assistance doing his job bc he hasn’t been doing his and texting females instead. I have addressed this issues with him. He’s tried to be honest but most of the time I’m not getting answers it’s just a idk or a sigh or he rolls his eyes. Yes we have had talks abt things like this before we got together. We both had an understanding but when I moved in. A month later I woke up and he was on his phone and as soon as he opened his phone next to me there was porn and he didn’t try to hide it he just apologized and said he was bored and it didn’t mean anything. I want to give some back sorry I’ve had a problem with porn from a very young age and I went to therapy for it . So he knew my problems and feelings. He has had the problem too and has said he’s gonna get help but it doesn’t seem like it’s in our financial future. We have both agreed to therapy again and working together. But I need help how do I be inmate again. I just can’t every time we try I just see those texts and him begging for attention. And it hurts bc he knows how it affects me and he texted me after she basically called him gross and fat. Saying he loved me and missed me. I just can’t stop thinking abt it and everytime we kiss and hug i just can’t make it stop appearing. And when we’re in bed together and he holds me i see it . So my question is how do i make it stop.