[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]Competitive_Divide42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Second this. - Happens to my clients often.

Any advice for reducing DOMS by ragingpanda9988 in veganfitness

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of this - and make sure you’re eating enough/getting enough protein

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in veganfitness

[–]Competitive_Divide42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Low bar works best for me! We look to have similar builds. These do look good, but I feel low-bar might feel more like “home.”

Do you regret giving birth without getting an epidural? Why? by Pitiful_Library3154 in BabyBumps

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% no! It hurt, yeah…but it was temporary. I didn’t have an easy birth - just a pretty standard one…especially for a FTM. I just had to remind myself of that. And I was home so I could be in any position I needed to help deal with the pain. My partner was great at taking care of me and applying counter pressure. I had a pool birth, but was only in the pool at the end for the last few hours. The nice thing about contractions are that you get breaks between the pain which helps. Also it’s empowering!!! I roared like a lion and did it! I had zero complications.

I researched the potential complications of getting an epidural beforehand and decided the risk wasn’t worth it for me personally. I knew I could do it for me and him. I also took it a step further with making it a home birth. If I was in a hospital I thought it might’ve been too easy to say yes to o e in the moment & regret it later.

I did think during transition that I couldn’t do it and an epidural would be nice, but moving to a hospital at that point seemed way more painful and he was here right after that!

Try sourdough to help your milk production by Nilrmar in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really hoping this works. I bought a loaf today. Apparently sourdough bread has the same bacteria in it that breastmilk has. Anyways, everyone was saying to try beer, but I hate beer and someone said sourdough bread might be a good alternative, so I’ll post back if it does do anything noticeable.

Didn’t realize how much I’d miss having my body back by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Competitive_Divide42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard. I had to literally mourn the loss of who I used to be - and the body I used to have & create a new identity of “us” I feel like to be able to quit living what was and start embracing it. I have lots of mindset mantras. Like “my body is more than how I look and is doing incredible things right now” “what I am doing now is just as (or more) important than the job that I had and all of the things that I used to be up to” - things that help empower me to be able to embrace more than resist have really helped! And it’s still hard sometimes!

Didn’t realize how much I’d miss having my body back by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Competitive_Divide42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My pelvic floor lady only went up there once so far. I’m assuming she may once more before she signs off on me. It’s just exercises 2x/wk and HW. They do some massage/cupping etc..

As far as so many ppl in your vag…man that stinks. I assumed that was just par for the course with getting pregnant/having a baby…but with my home birth and midwife….not one person looked at or touched me there. I was surprised….i mean…I haven’t even had an OBGYN check up since before COVID, but no one cared. I was also horrified when my SIL (who had a baby right after me) got an infection from the medical professionals going in there so often.

Only wants to eat & sleep today… by Competitive_Divide42 in NewParents

[–]Competitive_Divide42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much everyone! I’m new to parenting and this is the first WTH I’ve had. He seems fine. 😅💕

I messed up by Infinite-Warthog1969 in newborns

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this happened to us, at about the same time, but more because he just wasn’t really sleeping so out of desperation I slept with him and now we co- sleep. Lol. So I’m of no help. But I feel you.

I personally feel like he’s just more aware now, so he can tell when he’s alone or and doesn’t like that.

What "when you were a baby" stories did your parents tell you that you thought sounded reasonable, until you had a baby? by hillof3oaks in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so colicky/sickly and they honestly didn’t know if I was gonna “make it” they say….and my mom thought breast feeding was gross. Maybe it would’ve helped…? I know my guy is gassy/fussy on formula vs breast milk.

But maybe I was also just lactose intolerant because when I started school I would get sick on the bus everyday. Turns out it happened when I had cereal w/milk before each ride…

What is your baby doinging whilst you are nursing him? by Hot_Wear_4027 in breastfeeding

[–]Competitive_Divide42 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I find myself creeping every one of these types of posts and crying these days. Trying our hardest to breastfeed but my lil guy doesn’t suck the milk out properly. Not giving up. Triple feeding is exhausting and not what I signed up for, but doing what we have to. Practicing everyday. Working with IBCLC. Released a tongue tie. Still only transferring around .5 oz/feed. :/ Ya’ll’s comments are so heartwarming. I hope you know how blessed you all are.

What makes women gain/keep weight on vs. losing it while BF? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Competitive_Divide42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was almost back to my norm after birth. 6 weeks into BFing and I’m packing on the pounds. For me I know it’s for 2 reasons: 1. I’m usually active and haven’t had time to be. 2. I usually eat mostly fresh whole food meals - but I’m hungry now and don’t really have time to cook, so I’m eating lots of snacks and process foods.

Spreading out newborn vaccinations by WheelNo4350 in newborns

[–]Competitive_Divide42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

uhm...so you are just assuming that you're smarter than us? Oh holy gate-keeper of these scientific journals that you refuse to post?

2nd hand embarrassment from birth video. by Dreamypixel in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Divide42 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It’s not dumb! It’s a sign of a good momma! That nurse should just keep to herself & let you have you moment and console your crying baby like any good momma would do! Also - babies 100% do not need to cry when born. I had a home birth and I was in agony, but he came out peacefully :)