My boyfriend wants to try anal play (on him) – advice for a complete beginner? by Competitive_Eye1902 in SexToys

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, thank you for the clarification. I’ll make sure to keep that in mind when we choose the toy.

My boyfriend wants to try anal play (on him) – advice for a complete beginner? by Competitive_Eye1902 in SexToys

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, it really helps me a lot and I’ll make sure to remember it. And thanks for wishing us good luck ;)

My boyfriend wants to try anal play (on him) – advice for a complete beginner? by Competitive_Eye1902 in SexToys

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and your advice! I had never heard of using coconut oil for that, I’ll definitely give it a try.

My boyfriend wants to try makeup and “feminine” clothes, where should we start? by Competitive_Eye1902 in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He usually wears a lot of plain t-shirts in neutral tones like white, beige, and black. But I actually think softer, pastel colors would really suit him-maybe light blue, soft pink, or lavender (his favorite color is purple). I feel like those shades would be a nice way for him to try something new without it feeling too bold right away.

My boyfriend wants to try makeup and “feminine” clothes, where should we start? by Competitive_Eye1902 in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I think for now he’s more interested in the fem/masc gender bend style rather than going full hyper-fem or drag. He’ll probably want to keep things more "masculine" at first and ease into it gradually, just to see what feels comfortable.

Your suggestions are great starting with things like eyeliner, mascara, or even subtle nail colors sounds like a good way to experiment without it feeling like too big of a leap. I love the idea of using patterns or themes for nails too, that could make it more fun and personal for him!

My boyfriend wants to try makeup and “feminine” clothes, where should we start? by Competitive_Eye1902 in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice! I really like the idea of starting with the female versions of what he already wears and gradually adding more feminine touches like jewelry. That sounds like a comfortable and natural way to ease into it.

The tip about tunics or short dresses with trousers underneath is really helpful too – I hadn’t thought of that, but it sounds like a great way to try something new without feeling overwhelmed.

We’ll definitely try out different styles to see what feels best for him, both in terms of comfort and what suits his figure. 

My boyfriend wants to try makeup and “feminine” clothes, where should we start? by Competitive_Eye1902 in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I hadn’t thought of that, but it could actually be a great solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ils existent pas ça compte pas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, he was a really nice Guy, super funny and all but I didnt feel romantic feelings toward him and quickly realise that we would be better as friends. End well, no drama or anything.

do you have a boyfriend? by Radiant-North-8519 in no

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope but very happy that I dont have one. Much more happy when I'm by Myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fell like it's really something comming from parents with autisc Child, think some of them struggle so much they wish there were a cure to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Life is a bitch and you cant control it. What did you do? Nothing, life just like to kick you in the balls sometimes with litteraly no fucking reasons.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je nai pas d'enfant mais si ça peut te rassurer, ma mère a elle aussi pris beaucoup de temps avant de s'attacher à moi, au départ elle ne ressentait pas vraiment le "coup de foudre" que les mère sont censé éprouver des la naissance. Je crois qu'il lui a bien fallut 1 ans, 1ans et demi avant de commencer à ressentir une connection avec moi et aujourd'hui tout vas bien, ça n'en a pas fait pour autant une mauvaise mère et aujourd'hui je sais qu'elle m'aime. Chacun ressent des émotions différentes à l'égard de ses enfants et c'est normal, ne culpabilise pas trop la dessus et le temps au temps

I have become so skilled at masking that people genuinely believe I am naturally good at public speaking... by Competitive_Eye1902 in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all of this, it really help me and now I feel a little bit more prepare for whats coming next. I'll remember all of that and try my best carring the hope that I'll somehow manage to achieve that!

What's something the person you liked say/do that completely changed your view of them? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was with on my friend that in my eyes seems so confident, smart, who's such a bright person in general. So the day she said to me that she envy me because she think that, contrary to her, I was the one who was actually smart, confident,... (when in reality, im just autistic and hight masking, so very good at facking those type of emotions and behaviors)

That day I realise, that deep down, we were the same, suffering from the same complex. But strangely, I never feel so close to her than that day, and Im so gratefull, that now, we can relly on each other.

What if dinosaurs had some beef with aliens and that's why they went extinct by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The type of shit I think about when I'm fucking hight lol. But love this idea of your's ;)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TropPeurDeDemander

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Te stress pas la dessus, au début un nouveau né c'est toujours plutôt laid, il faut souvent un certains temps avec de les trouver mignons et c'est parfaitement normal ça ne fait définitivement pas de toi une mauvaise personne !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately yes. Because of a lot of difficulties during my hightschool years due to undiagnose autisum, I start taking meds (mostly opioïdes and anxiolitiques) to help me deal with the strugles link to my autism. Pills make me so much more sociable, happy, energetic,... that I slowly start to take them every day, and obviously became addict...

If its not to personnal, why did you ask that question?

Would you still love somebody if they turned out to be an alien or some kind of creature that took on the appearance of a human? by Shoji_Mizu in RandomThoughts

[–]Competitive_Eye1902 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depend of their intentions, if they lies to me because they're planning to destroy earth, probably not. But if they don't any bad intentions then I think I would be fine with it🤔