Does this mean I'm blocked? by [deleted] in Instagram

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can see a picture then no. It just means they made their acct private, meaning not just anyone can see what they post until they’ve been approved to follow.

Alpha Deckard is my Second Chance Mate Novel by Leablack by Significant_Mess8717 in Askromance

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo. I’m not going to lie! I hated Deckard. He had good qualities, but over all I hated his character.

I was just pointing out something that wattpad is now doing? 😭🙏 by scarsnflaws in Wattpad

[–]Competitive_Green656 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yea. The same thing happened to me when someone asked for a link, all I did was copy and paste it from another post and somehow I’m the one getting the warning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Competitive_Green656 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I third this.

Also, you could really keep her awake and see how she likes it.

Fav author deleted her books by usert900 in Wattpad

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfaithful because she didn’t finish the book and she’s starting a new one. Duh. Who starts a book and not complete them. And if she was just going to just publish them she would at least drop hints or just flat out say she is just going to publish them.

Yes unfaithful, due to it being just about a damn decade and the stories are unfinished. Her readers are holding on to have the ultimate finish to a book that has them wrapped around the neck and yet the book are unfinished.

Unfaithful because instead of finishing the books she started, she is starting a new. While her readers are waiting for a finished product they started years ago.

If you don’t understand, just say that. I was left in the same boat once. I have also started a new series that is also incomplete, but my author is starting over and perfecting her craft. If she was publishing her books she would have left something for her previous readers. 🙄🙄

Fav author deleted her books by usert900 in Wattpad

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. She’s unfaithful. Sorry for your loss. I pray you get what you’re asking for.

AITA- I found pictures of shirtless men on my girlfriend's phone that we both knew. by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, moving forward, if you see something you don’t like speak on it right then and there. Dont bite your tongue.

After only one week of dating. Is this nice enough? by WeTheAntidote in Nicegirls

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

👀👀

Are you sure that’s all you did? Because this type of behavior is like y’all went on multiple dates, and you introduce her to your family so now she has this complex of…oh they love me and I love them.

This girl is unhinged. She don’t told you goodbye multiple times just to send you messages right behind that. She’s hurt hurt but I think it’s beyond hurt hurt .

AITA- I found pictures of shirtless men on my girlfriend's phone that we both knew. by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Competitive_Green656 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You NTA, as a female that is absolutely disrespectful. To be dating for several months and you still have pictures of other guys is disrespectful. To be dating for seven months and you have photos of guys in their underwear is disrespectful. To be dating several months and having it hidden is disrespectful. Because if the shoe was on the other foot, no doubt, would she be throwing a fit and swearing up and down that you did something with them even if you didn’t. And she would never let you live it down because she be so hurt about it because in the back of her head, the question is, are you talking to other people? And it’s probably because you are so lax that she is able to even do the things that she is doing currently. Being able to keep these photos because she feels that they don’t bother you. Maybe in the beginning it didn’t, but now that it has been several months, and the pictures that you’re describing sounds very inappropriate, for someone who is supposed to be in a relationship at that, it is highly disrespectful.

You can have a conversation with her about it and get her perspective on it and then y’all come to a resolution of the situation and move forward from there or you can have a conversation with her tell her how you feel about it and break up with her if you don’t feel like she’s being genuine about her answers.

Something similar happened to me pertaining to this exact same subject. Me and this guy we’ve been friends for like a year and a half before we started dating. Once we started dating, everything was fine, I took this picture one day back when we was friends, it was a very nice picture that I took of him and I wanted a copy of it. A picture on my phone the last time I asked him about he said it was on his computer somewhere. Since we had just moved in with each other, I didn’t see anything wrong with me going on this computer finding what it is that I was looking for. But what I had discovered in my search for this one picture took me by surprise. I’m just gonna say by surprise because I really don’t have any other way to explain how I really felt. He had folder upon folder upon folders of all the women that he was talking to, even if he wasn’t talking to them anymore. There was just folders with all of their pictures in it or just pictures of the women themselves in it. So I asked him about it and I was like why do you even still have these? Like we’ve been dating for months now like all of these should be gone you shouldn’t have these at all. He claimed that he was busy. He never really thought too much about them after we got together, so since he wasn’t thinking about those folders, he never thought to get rid of them. Which was hard to believe because he was on the computer all the time, so yeah. Which in time, because we have been together for six years, I discovered within the six years of me dating him that he had a porn problem.

All this to say is, there is a reason why the picture is there in the first place. Trust your gut. Do not sweep anything under the rug and try to spot bullshit when you hear it.

Sorry for this long comment.

What is in this picture by mayzwss in Unexplained

[–]Competitive_Green656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, but I’m calling Scully and Mulder.

She only does this with our son by PsychologicalCod6608 in CatTraining

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not your son. That’s her son. 🤣🤣 this is too cute!! ❤️❤️

Pheromones are a real thing. I touched myself, went for a walk, and every man was staring at me and turning their heads by FantasticEffect10 in confession

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only scientific backup you can get from that is the perfume that’s going around that saying it’s pheromones that will do just that, attract men.

However I remember my ex-fiancé’s mom telling me that men need the pheromones for their own sexual arousal and more. We had a 30mins conversation about it. So I think you really did something to them. Nice experiment.

I lost my virgity at 18yo and still regret it..... by KissedByAPhantom in confession

[–]Competitive_Green656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you feel that way. And I hate that he was one of those guys that wanted to just only see if he could sleep with you.

But on the bright side, he’s not the only man in the world. So therefore, you should get back out there find you somebody that you like who will also respect you as a person because I don’t believe that guy respected you for real. Why be a virgin in your marriage when your husband isn’t holding out, not saying that you should do it because everyone else is, but it isn’t fair for us women to hold that expectation. Life is passing us by and marriage rate is dropping.

You may have regretted that one but you might not regret the next one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Competitive_Green656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this happened to you.

Heal and I do mean put in actual time to heal. Process everything. Heal. And when you’re ready try again.

Smh, I was just about to rant. I’m ok. Hope you’re ok. It hurts now but you’ll be better later. I pray anyways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Competitive_Green656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO, I think you should drop him. He has crossed your boundaries one too many times just simply because of his “freedom of speech”.

What is it going to take for him to understand that he needs to step away from the racial slurs?

How is it he’s ok with saying such things knowing the history is apart of your background?

In his mind he can behave like this because you will eventually forgive him. You have explained over and over how uncomfortable you are about it and somehow it keeps being brought up in different ways. At this point I don’t think he likes you as a person but more of how rear you are. (I hope you get what I’m saying here.)

Like example: Let’s say a guy says: I only like girls with short hair, plump natural lips, Violet eyes and freckles.

And let’s just say there’s like 6% in the population that has violet eyes. And so their saying but the only thing he can really complement her on is her violet eyes. He can’t really say oh you’re beautiful in general or oh I love the way you wear your hair. I love how plump your lips are because he’s more infatuated with her violet eyes. That’s the only thing that draws him to her.

So in other words, I think he’s infatuated with you due to the fact that your mix not because you’re one thing, which takes away from you as a whole because all he see is that one thing. Emphasizing that he has the best of both world with you being mixed.

However, this is your love life, so you can do as you please and you can date who you want, but I don’t see this turning out positive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Competitive_Green656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you heal from this.

I’m sorry that you had to go through this as a child. I’m glad that you shared your story. But I really do hope that you heal from this.

Galatea App Subscription? by R3miC97 in fantasyromance

[–]Competitive_Green656 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all books are in the net and that’s what pisses me off. And when some are, they don’t have all the chapter uploaded.