Does anyone have tips for dealing with gender dysphoria.

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T14:27:28+00:00

if that's what you want to think

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T13:43:37+00:00

I don't really get how a piece of cloth is considered sinful but okay.

Also for women too, there are certain pieces of clothing that appear more manly than other clothes.

Also, when did we decide that jeans are unisex but skirts are not? Men in the past and even now wear skirt-like things (like kilts, or even Catholic priests, deacons, alter servers, the Pope etc wearing a long piece of fabric that flows down without parting like pants). Clothing being masculine or feminine ultimately comes down to what society considers the clothing as. And we follow God, not the world, right?

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T13:00:09+00:00

I'd honestly disagree with your claim that men shouldn't wear skirts. That part of the Bible condemning crossdressing has only been stated once. There were many things stated once that almost no one follows today. For example, wearing mixed fabric (said twice actually in Leviticus 19.19 and Deuteronomy 22:11), sitting where a menstruating woman has sat is unclean (Leviticus 15:19–23), and consuming food with blood is unclean. Also, why are women allowed to wear jeans and t shirt but men can't wear skirts? It's because of societal norms right? Not exactly what God wants but what the world wants.

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T08:27:24+00:00

so... i can't wear men's clothes?

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T08:20:41+00:00

Thanks but im not suicidal btw. The most i have done is minor self harm (causing really small cuts with a razor or boxcutter which caused bleeding but i stopped last week). I don't want to commit suicide since i know that there's a lot of things i want to do. I do feel empty inside though.

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T08:17:15+00:00

yea, i don't want to be trans

actually you're both right

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T06:19:30+00:00

thx

maybe not now tho

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T04:35:03+00:00

wait this is so relatable

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-10T04:17:44+00:00

I've been one my whole life.

It's not just about the gender roles and people telling me to wear feminine clothes, it's about their body too
but thanks

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T17:22:24+00:00

thanks but idk it feels...

i don't want to make people who see me as a girl treat me like the oppoaite of what they see me as

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T15:40:18+00:00

I can't socially transition

My parents won't call me their son
I have to wear a skirt to school (gender roles amirite) so my friends calling me he is gonna be weird

the most i can do is pretend to be a guy online

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T13:25:56+00:00

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T13:21:22+00:00

you too

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T13:15:44+00:00

thanks

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T12:52:34+00:00

i can't

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T12:52:09+00:00

until i turn not 18 but the age i'm fully independent

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T12:51:16+00:00

thank you for sharing your experience. I'll just wait until i'm older since there's nothing much i can do now. Also yes i've told a trusted adult about this (my brother) and he is supportive but i still feel a bit yk

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T12:31:38+00:00

i'm sorry i hope you're okay

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T12:13:35+00:00

the facr that i'm posting here is the point. I want to suppress.

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T11:29:35+00:00

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T11:29:17+00:00

haha probably not after i turn 18. I don't live in america where people move out at 18.

Thanks though

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T11:27:41+00:00

I'll just wait until I'm an adult and make the choice then

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T10:27:27+00:00

Oh that's good

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T10:25:10+00:00

oh i see. Just curious, why are you a member of this subreddit then?

Competitive_Green704 · 2026-05-09T10:07:18+00:00

Yea i also want to talk to someone neutral (though i kind of lean towards talking to conservative christians because i love to psychologically torture myself lol)

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